GiRLS THAT HAVE G0TTEN EATEN 0UT vs. SiGN iN...

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  1. NeLLe

    NeLLe New Member

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    0k...I've been eaten out before..& it's felt sooo good. But could not come. Now the bf thinks that "all" girls can come from being eaten out...& he thinks he's doing it wrong.

    Before him, I've never had it done...& it's his first time doing it...so I dunno what it's supposed to feel like. But everytime he does it....it feels amazing. I just can't come.


    Any tips for me to enjoy it more or any I can give him just in case it is him (which I don't think it is)?
     
  2. theaznfunk

    theaznfunk B-boy fanatic

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    Be patient, relax, and you WILL come.
     
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    mtnbike4522 CelicaTech.com

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    Explain more, what kind of orgasm are you talking about. One from clit stimulation mainly or Gspot stimulation? The clit orgasm is much easier to attain so I'm guessing you're talking about the g spot.

    The g spot orgasm will just like you feel when you are about to pee, and you're probably just holding it back without realizing it, what you need to do is relax and let it go, you wont actually pee, you'll cum.
     
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    chica&buddies Active Member

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    um... it's technique. they've either got it or they don't.

    :o 2 have been eff'n outstanding :eek3:
     
  6. Ryuhei

    Ryuhei Oh gawd

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    Practice makes perfect.
     
  7. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    I rarely get off by oral alone. There has to be a lot of other foreplay first, and I have to be really relaxed and super horny. It's another one of those "all girls are different" thangs!
     
  8. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    if u're implying that going down on a girl is some sort of natural ability, which certain people just pop out of puberty with, and other people don't, some kind of innate skill born from genetic experience and temperament ... ok obviously u're not implying that. n/m
     
  9. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    be experimental, get comfortable enough with each other so that you can say "try this" "yeah mroe of that omg" "no try using the flat part of your tongue and licking from the bottom to the top" etc. work together and u will find stuff out
     
  10. Peyton Manning

    Peyton Manning I love your mom a whole, whole lot.

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    :rofl:
     
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    Technique. Tell your bf to put his finger against your g-spot and give it a little stimulation. Is he licking your clit or just the general area?
     
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    You have to tell him what feels better and what rythm feels good, when/if you feel you can cum from a rythm you have to tell him that feels good keep going, inter-act :)
     
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    shocker+oral=orgasm
     
  14. GSRwBOOST

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    he's doing it wrong....

    do a search for that video i posted a link to about how to eat pussy... he will learn a good bit in a short time.
     
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    Also have him suck you clit, that works for me, I always cum when my husband goes down on me :bigthumb:
     
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    Coming is also a mental thing. As many have stated before, RELAX and clear your mind.
     
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    Relax, lay back and enjoy, and have fun with him doin all the work ^_~
     
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    Practice does make perfect, and technique is everything.
    I can make my Lady go 9 out of 10 for sure. I use different methods to break up the usual...
     
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    It's hard for me to just "relax"...I always have other things on my mind. And when I try to consentrate (sp?) I end up thinking about how hard I'm consentrating. :dunno:
     
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    looks like you don't need me... you answered your own question ;)

    seriously, though... some guys [2 that i can personally vouch for] have been incredibly awesome.
     
  21. The Secretary

    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    RELAX is the best advice. Your bf may be new at the whole eating out thing too so cut him some slack. Talk to him tell him what feels good to you if he has a brain he will catch on.

    My bf has made me come from his eating skills and it feels great. I didnt always but through communication I did. It felt great before now, but now its the best.
     
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    any recommendations on positioning?

    i've only gave while she's on a bed, and i'm off so i'm kinda sitting. i can't do it when we're both on a flat surface. i've heard having them sitting on your face works well too.
     
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    yeah...that works well....umm..yeah, have their legs drap off the bed and you on the floor. In a chair is nice. a simple 69. Umm...all sorts of stuff :big grin:

    I would have to disagree with some people in here...it isn't just 'practice' or relaxing on her part.

    If you have a small clit, it might be hard to stimulate it with the tongue, while other women like hard pressure against the clit and so forth. If your guy doesn't push hard or has a weak tongue that can be an issue too.

    On a side note, the thing I hate is when couples play a blame game and that it is ONE PERSONS fault...it is rarely, if ever one person's fault. Sex is a mutual thing that both partners have to work at and if they dont' it won't work. Simply saying it is one person's fault (oh you are not relaxing, or you are not pushing hard enough) is not the way to get through stuff...probably the worst thing you can do
     
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    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    I would say some peopel have some natural ability..but it can be taught....same with giving head....my wife may not like this..but she REALLY wasn't very good at it when we first started (I was her first partner)...but she wanted to improve..and now, she is pretty damn good...others have agreed too that she is fairly good
     
  25. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    just curious about that last bit
     

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