girls that are afraid of penises?

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  1. crazy15

    crazy15 New Member

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    ok i'm talkin to this girl, she is very prude when it comes to penises, she has never seen/touched one before :ugh: yes i know. But i want her to loosen up and get more comfortable. I have tried talking to her and she just says shes not ready :greddy:. I'm trying to think of ways to speed up the process, i know i could just ditch her and stuff, but thats not an option :)

    any ideas?
     
  2. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    When I was younger, I wasn't afraid of 'em, but I thought they were the ugliest things ever!!!!

    As I got older I discovered a new found apperciation for them! They're quite nice! (Well most).
     
  3. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Well, the easy solution to that is just wait for an appropriate time and just whip it out. Tell her you're going to play "anatomy lesson" with her or something :mamoru:
     
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    I'm gonna agree with this..., get it out there, let her see, touch, feel, pet, hold it and just get use to having it around.

    The more familiar that she can become with you, the more easier it will be to encourage her to allow you to share yourself with her and vice versa as she should be encouraged to let you become more familiar with her (if you know what I mean), and don't treat/refer to your penis as a completely different entity, it is you/a part of you and should be referred to as part of the whole..., whatever nicking and third party references should come from her.
     
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    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    If she's not ready, she's not ready. Sounds like she's pretty young anyway...
     
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    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    yep.

    i don't believe you should pressure anyone to have sex or engage in sexual acts before they are ready.

    this girl is clearly not ready.
     
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    when in doubt ... whip it out !!!
     
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    watch a porn together?
     
  9. brobinson

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    There could be a much deeper issue than simply being afraid of it. Hell, I knew a girl in high school who was molested, violently, as a child. If someone touched her neck, just the lightest touch, she would start to hyperventilate. So, not knowing the circumstances of 'not being ready', let it be. By pushing the issue, in the slightest way, you could be
    pushing her away.

    Either that, or somewhere, sometime, someone told her that 'penises are evil and dirty and smelly and they hurt" prolly some undersexed aunt who was a horseface and couldn't get any.
     
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    Hmm, a word of caution, when I tried that with an ex of mine, I ended up busting her lip and blackening her eye..., so be careful.
     
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    That whole thing sounds delicate. Ease into conversation with caution in case it relates to something that happened to her in the past.
     
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    :rofl: :rofl:
     

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