girls, tell me what you think of this situation

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  1. evh

    evh Active Member

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    i'm at a party. i'm walking around, and you (the girl) intentionally bumps my hip... i bump yours back, now we're hugging. i have my lips pressed tightly against your neck and i say "mmm, you're really warm". (it was freezing outside and i was cold) you have no problem with this, and in fact are hugging me pretty tightly.

    where do you think it would have gone from here?
     
  2. Bailey

    Bailey OT Supporter

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    ever consider you may be gay ?
     
  3. Bavve

    Bavve the snow has come down on top of everything\\\

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    :rofl:
     
  4. evh

    evh Active Member

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    cause i couldn't pull the trigger. special girl to me, not just some random piece of meat.
     
  5. HEALtoast

    HEALtoast New Member

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    Seems like you may be afraid of getting into a relationship with her even though deep down you really want it.

    But I think after that it either led to some BOOM, or you didn't come off as bold enough. In the "BOOM" case you already had an established relationship. In the case where you didn't get any action you guys were friends or a drunk acquaintances.
     
  6. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    and did she pull away when you tried to kiss her ?
     
  7. evh

    evh Active Member

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    i didn't. i was the one who pushed her off of me. im so dumb.
     
  8. evh

    evh Active Member

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    i've always liked this girl. she's special to me and the outcome matters, so i worry about everything and get nervous when i try to pull the trigger. im pretty sure i coulda done it last night, i just pussied out
     
  9. Way_fast_Whitey

    Way_fast_Whitey Cause I Can't Stand To See You Treated Bad, I beat

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    back into the theater to finish watching the lizzy mcguire movie?
     
  10. Way_fast_Whitey

    Way_fast_Whitey Cause I Can't Stand To See You Treated Bad, I beat

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    oo i see..Just "pull the trigger" next time..wait too long and she will think you are weird or dont like her..
     
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    PocoDiablo New Member

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    If you've known her a long time, nothing was going to happen anyway. Stop hitting on friends.
     
  12. DarkAngel19

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    Hey, I had feelings for my best friend for a while, and we were in a ton of those 'intimate' situations where nothing ended up happening because we both pussied out. The most romantic night of my night happened with him when we weren't even touching, and I wonder where I would be today if I had rolled over the blanket while we were watching stars and just kissed him.

    Don't wait. We are now best, best friends, but we passed that window of romance/sexual tension and now we are totally indifferent to each other in that way.

    If you want this girl for your girlfriend, don't waste time and let her know (i.e. kiss her next time). If you don't care either way, then don't do anything. If you don't know how you feel... imagine her getting with another guy and being totally happy with him - how does that make you feel? Happy for her, and you're good as friends. Totally jealous and want to kill the guy, and you're interested in her as a girlfriend.

    I think the general consensus in here so far is that you are still acting like this is high school:) Man-up, bro!

    DA
     
  13. BlackIce72

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    Look her in the eyes, smile, and bring your face closer as you hug.

    Then say 'i like this'.

    When she smiles, kiss her.
     
  14. NCS

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    smooth
     
  15. evh

    evh Active Member

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    wowwwwwwwwwww dude that is fucking smoother than silk baby.

    i'm so using that.
     
  16. HEALtoast

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    For sure. I've waited before and lo' and behold that window of opportunity passed and there really wasn't much I could do.

    Of course, I've also had that pressing feeling that in the back of my mind I'm screaming "you want this to work out, make it CLEAR to her that you intend to DATE her."

    Just make it clear. Ambiguity eats away at you and prevents you from doing anything productive.
     
  17. VIPRKLR

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    friend zone..but hopefully not.

    Only one way to find out where it would go!
     
  18. Way_fast_Whitey

    Way_fast_Whitey Cause I Can't Stand To See You Treated Bad, I beat

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    like a pimp!!! haha not bad.
     
  19. Kirbys Autumn

    Kirbys Autumn Mrs. Kirby McSpic

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    aww, that'd be so cute. Go for it!:)
     

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