girls taking the initiative

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  1. daydreaming

    daydreaming New Member

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    how do you guys feel about the girl taking initiative and asking the guy out?

    and girls, how do you feel about taking the initiative?
     
  2. purplebeast

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    i'm not into it. I'm the man, I do the approaching.
     
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    It depends, I've never been bothered by asking a guy to hang out or whatever, but I prefer that they make the first physical move.
     
  5. I like to let the guy do the asking. I know it sounds oldschool, but guys do like to chase. (general statement, Im aware that not everyone is like that)
     
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    i initaieted last night, made a dumbass of myself.


    damn soco and dr pepper :rofl:
     
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    Doesn't bother me. Her asking makes it easier for me heh.
     
  8. BTA

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    I'm pretty obvlivious to signs that I should initiate things with women, so I'm glad my current GF went after me at the beginning.
     
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    I asked girl out after knowing her for all of about 24 hours. We talked and had fun. She wound up kissing me before the night was over. :naughty: x eleventy billion.

    I LOVE when girl takes charge. Shows us she knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go for it.
     
  10. toeshoes

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    Wow! Kissing! Wow! and x eleventy billion :rofl: What are you like 12 or something? :rofl:
     
  11. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Her asking me makes it easier.
     
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    SOCO = me pukin my ass off :wtc:
     
  13. sailor71

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    LOVE it when a girl takes the iniative.

    Makes live easier because lets face it, most guys are clueless when it comes to telling if a girl likes your not.
     
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    it used to freak me out, but now i'm all for it. it can shift the balance of power a bit, in a masochistic sort of way it's kinda fun trying to work out if she's interested or not :rofl: (and you obviously know she is if she blurts it out)
     
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    after re-thinking it, I do like when they take the initiative because then I can play hard to get even more than I would normally :)

    Had a pretty cute 18 year old come on to me at work the other day. It was a lot of fun messing with her and listening to her try to convince me that I should date her
     
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    21 :squint:. Also last GF just mounted ontop of me when her sister was like 5 feet from us in the kitchen. no doors / rooms to stop her from seeing. quite nerve racking :noes:
     
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    i don't mind asking guys out... it's hard to make the first phsyical move tho... :o done it once, didn't work out too bad. ;) at least he kissed me back, so all was well.

    :rofl: part of me kinda likes to see how long they wait as well. plenty of opportunities to make a move, but they don't ;)
     
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    I enjoy it when the girl takes the initiative and asks the guy out... It's nice to know without a shadow of a doubt that she wants you.
     
  19. HoodRich

    HoodRich Professional Street Nigga OT Supporter

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    I prefer to do the approaching, Girls that approach guys just come off as desperate. If we're interested they know we'll come talk to them. Plus sometimes I just dont want to talk to anyone and having someone come up and try to strike a conversation with me is just annoying. (i'm sure women feel the same way at times)
     
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    I don't care who makes the first move, but I'm going to make the first physical move. :naughty:

    But I've noticed that it takes a long time for me to actually feel comfortable after a girl makes the first move.
     
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    guys first move, girls first sexual move. as a guy sometimes im reluctant to make the first sexual move in fear that she doesnt feel the same way unless im fairly sure :o
     
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    If you both really like each other to that point, it doesnt matter to me...it easy when she does.... even when she makes the first moves toward foreplay/sex
     
  23. RandomSanity

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    I always make a fool out of myself when i make the first move, so it saved a lot of trouble when a girl asks me.
     

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