Girls, how do you give head?

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  1. WickedLou9

    WickedLou9 Deep cover terrorist gerbil

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    Ok my g/f wants to know how to better give me oral.. honestly she is not very good at it. she is getting better actually, but still not really. it takes so long that her mouth and jaw gets sore and she cant finish, which is pretty uncomfortable.

    not having ever performed oral sex on another man, I really dont know what to tell her to do. basicaly more friction is better, but how should she go about doing it? any pointers?
     
  2. respect the cock and the cock will respect you - the trick is using your hand too - and a rhtym - maybe a lil twist of the wrist as you stroke and suck at the same time - i find lightly rubbing my palm across the top of an erect head gives good sensation too - my favorite is to swallow though that helps--ooh ooh and dont forget to suck the balls too a lil hair doesnt hurt that bad

    imma stop here i can go on for days about my favorite sexual act!!
     
  3. WickedLou9

    WickedLou9 Deep cover terrorist gerbil

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    but what do you do with your mouth and tounge and shit... swallowing isnt an issue if she cant get me there... and I have never really cared for anyone licking my balls either. :) there is no hair down there anyways :) all gone.
     
  4. you know how you suck on a lolypop? light apply pressure with your lips as you move your head up and down in various speeds - the tongue can either slide up and down with your lips laying flush with the shaft or if your good at it you can use it to stimulate the head of the cok while moving your mouth -

    as far as licking your balls - it wasnt done right;)

    :bigthumb: no hair is cool!!!!
     
  5. nucl3ar

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    Only you really know what works. If she does something thats good, let her know, same goes for stuff you dont like.
    For ex. acuraholikk said rubbing a palm across the head. I don't like that, a tongue is fine, but not a palm.
     
  6. IMJ

    IMJ The Bitch

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    tell your girl to give me a call...


    or she can come over...

    and she can watch and learn..!:bigthumb:
     
  7. did i forget to mention gently??? - you are right though i know what he liked due to him telling me - or shaking violently - that was a good sign!!!!
     
  8. VWgurl

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    Yeah-just tell her what feels good on you. Tell her "faster slower harder" stuff like that. if you think something would feel good-tell her-even if it sounds funny! Its all about what feels good to you. She will get better as time goes on...hey-if its taking too long-masterbate while she licks your balls-give her a little break while getting you closer to orgasm. I think thats the best-or have her lick a bit while you kinda masterbate-that way she feels like shes doing something. The main thing is to be really open-it sounds like she really wants to know how to get better. Tell her if it feels good, bad, unbelievable-shell start to get the hang of what you like. You can mold her into whatever you want-so GOOD LUCK!!

    Amy
     
  9. SpaMan

    SpaMan Mind over matter.

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    Go on morpheus and look for blow job etiquette videos!!

    ;)
     
  10. Eticket109

    Eticket109 Nibbles, chew through my ball sack. Moderator

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    :rofl:

    I heard of a technique called the remote controlled blowjob.

    You know what you like, so while she is blowing you... suck on her finger the way you want her to suck your cock until she gets the hang of it.
     
  11. chunky

    chunky frank and beans!

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    watch lots of porn. she needs to see it done right.
     
  12. nucl3ar

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    Porn is not the thing to be watching for sex tips. My roommate said he was watching one once and the girl fell off the bed, so while she was upside down on the floor the guy just crawled over and stuck it in her butt.
     
  13. Guest

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    DAM! I need to find a girl like you!
     
  14. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :buttsex:
     
  15. Guest

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    [move]:rofl:[/move]
     

  16. hehehe im in florida!!! thats where the freaks are - well atleast thats where i am anyway :naughty:
     
  17. chunky

    chunky frank and beans!

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    hahah!

    porn is good for learning how to give good head. watch some jill kelly vids, that woman can suck some mean cock.

    but porn is a bad place to learn how to fuck. pornstar fucking is all show. The good thing about BJ is 80% of getting him off IS the show. :big grin:
     
  18. PrettyLush5

    PrettyLush5 red sky at night

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    just tell her things you like while she's doing it :) always worked for me anyway :dunno: every guy is different
     
  19. Lomotil

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    "Pretend there's Pepto-bismol in there!"
     
  20. bikemike

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    Send her around I will give her lessons for free.. :cool: :bj:
     
  21. Jon1

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    Here's a thought....

    Go buy the largest banana you two can find. Seriously, have her practice on that. Peel the banana first, then like 'acura' says, use the hand/wrist in conjuction with her lips. it'll probably get messy so beware. tell her to glaze the banana with plenty of saliva (as she would your dong). if she is scraping you'll be able to tell by the dents in the banana. sooner or later she'll find a pace, and position of her head/neck/hand she's comfortable with, that won't tire her out. Now it's not like she has to apply 'suction' 24/7, but more so simply applying pressure (a little or a lot, what ever she's comfortable with) with her lips. plenty of lube (natrual or artificial) is really important.

    it's like anything else, if she practices enough she can master the art of cocksucking, we should all be so lucky. while your at it with the banana, ask her to practice deep throating as well. heh.
     
  22. Guest

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    :cool: what i like to do to my man is to pinch his nipples lightly and then kiss his whole chest until i get down to his penis. then i lick from the bottom to the top & put his whole penis in my mouth. ;) while i'm sucking up & down, there's a line underneath his shaft that i trace with my finger while my lips stay at the bottom & my tongue goes up & down! HE LOVES IT!!!!!!!!!! when i get tired, i stop, play with his nipples, stroke his inner thighs, then i go back down. :p :big grin: :smileysex :naughty: :down: :bj:
     
  23. asslay

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    the question is does she like doing it? if not then theres no point, without the right attitude itll always be half assed and boring.
     
  24. Eticket109

    Eticket109 Nibbles, chew through my ball sack. Moderator

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    Do you like to give head?
     
  25. asslay

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    ive only done it one time, and i found myself liking it, and i know that id love it if i knew what the hell i was doing.. wouldnt only seem logical though to think that one would do a better job at something if they were enjoying it? does anyone ever do a great job at something they really hate doing? in some cases yes but i dont think this would be it, do you?
     

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