Girls, do you get mad if a guy doesn't buy you a drink?

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  1. R.Kelly

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    I am at the bar waiting for a drink. This guy and girl are standing next to me talking/flirting. The guy sees some other girl he knows and bails on this girl.

    So she turns to me says

    Her: hey. want to buy me a drink?
    me: No, sorry. :hsugh:
    her: well fuck you <walks off>
    me: :ugh:

    Seriously...what the fuck is wrong with women?.

    Ps. chick was a butterface :mamoru:
     
  2. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    I guess she was just an opportunistic whore that is used to getting what she wants for free.

    What I don't like it when a guy WON'T back off after i say no thanks, on a drink offer.


    not that it happens very often since i don't go out...
     
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    chica&buddies Active Member

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    :rofl: i'd never ASK a guy to buy me a drink. if he does, :bigthumb:, if he doesn't, :dunno:, i'm pry already drinking one i bought anyways.

    hell, if we're chatting and i like him enough, i'll offer to buy him one. ;)
     
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    next time respond with "give me a french kiss"
     
  5. R.Kelly

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    Really? Because I get asked that shit all the time. I've never bought a girl a drink though.
     
  6. MattThom01

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    I'm sure a lot of girls go to bars to get free drinks...there are lots of clueless guys who think if they buy her drinks and try to flirt with her, she will sleep with them. So she gets free drinks and attention while he wastes money and time.

    If I had a girl get mad that I didn't buy her a drink, I'd say "Thank you for letting me know what type of girl you are", and move on.

    I don't like to spend my money unless I am certain I am getting something for it. Another good response would be "Ok, I buy you a drink, what do you get me?"
     
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    where are you going when this happens?
     
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    chica&buddies Active Member

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    no. that's freakin rude.
     
  9. R.Kelly

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    This was actually at a rather nice upscale bar...so I was rather surprised.
     
  10. Yail Bloor

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    why did you say "sorry?"

    at least come with something cocky and funny
     
  11. R.Kelly

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    I think you are the only girl in the world that thinks that :rofl::rofl: I have friends who are literally like "damn, I am broke tonight......guess Ill just hit on a few guys and get some free drinks"
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    :werd:
     
  13. R.Kelly

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    Because this girl doesn't deserve to get to see my sense of humor.
     
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    I think it's just a numbers game... like those girls are more obnoxious and are probably approaching more guys, so it seems like there are a lot of girls asking for drinks. In reality it's like the same 20% just making the rounds.

    And for the record I don't expect anyone to buy me drinks, nor do I ask.
     
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    oh, i figured you were at chans or seville or some shit.
     
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    WTF? :rofl:

    She deserves to get punched in the ovaries so she wont have the opportunity to reproduce and hopefuly wont ever get to raise a child.
     
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    Amanda Ann New Member

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    no i can buy my own drinks ... and i would never ASK a guy to buy me a drink... not that i would turn down a free drink, but there's a huge difference between the two
     
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    i've never asked a guy to buy me a drink, nor have i ever let a guy buy me a drink. if he is buying me a drink, i know what he is after, and since i know he wont be getting any, i save him the couple bucks and let him move on to the next girl who just might actually "pay him back" for that free drink

    like others have said, i think its rude, and it probably is only a small percentage of girls who are actually doing it, but they are out there and vocal so they are more noticable.
     
  19. iwishyouwerebeer

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    Meh, I've never expected a drink. If I ever had one bought for me I was pleasantly surprised every time, like "whoa, sweet! free drink!"
     
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    I would have replied "No, but you can get me one."
     
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    Do you buy her the drink if she does?

    if yes) lol prostitution

    if no) lol owned
     
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    bitch better not!
     
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    leacher!! she gold digger!
     
  24. R.Kelly

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    :hsugh::hsugh:
     
  25. sapient

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    Usually when I'm asked to buy a girl a drink, I try to determine quickly if she's someone I'd be interested in talking to. If so, I say, "sure, if you buy me one first" which gives me some time to talk to her without coming off as a chump who just spent money on some random girl for her company; this way it's just me reciprocating the drink she bought me. If I don't want to talk to her, a give her a wtf look and say "no" while chuckling.
     

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