Girls: Do you feel 'sexy' when you're on your period?

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  1. Mugen92GS-R

    Mugen92GS-R New Member

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    Me and my girlfriend have a very healthy relationship. We have great chemistry both in the bedroom and not and we both tend to initiate sex / foreplay equally. I ask the above question because she never seems to initiate giving me head when shes on her period. A few times I've kinda 'hinted' at the fact, and she's obliged, but tonight I asked her why she never does.

    I know it's not because she doesn't like it (90% of our 'end' to sex is her finishing me by giving me head), so we talked about it and she basically said she doesn't feel sexy at all when she's ragging and she always feels really tired; that it's hard for her to 'get in the mood' because of the above things. I can understand both (especially because I'm usually at her place until very late and she has to get up early in the morning), but I'm just asking you girls here.

    Do you not feel sexy when you're on your period? Do you find if you DON'T feel sexy, that it's harder for you to get in the mood to give head to your partner? Without either trying to or seeming like I'm trying to, is there anything special I can do to make her feel more sexy, even if it doesn't end in me getting head?

    I'd appreciate any input. Thanks in advance. :love:
     
  2. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    yeh, being worn down, broken out, discomforted, depressed, fat and bleeding tends me make me feel less desirable. yes, the resulting low self esteem makes it hard for me to get into the mood...


    i don't have an answer for the latter part. i've considered a corset, or other wise some sexy clothes that are period friendly... but i've yet to find a fail safe in that regard. you just deal with it, generally with the lights dimmed.
     
  3. CaiWooBlue

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    I don't feel sexy at all during my period, and I physically feel unwell, also. If my boobs hurt, I feel bloated and I have cramps, nothing is going to make me feel sexy.

    My husband has learned to not bring up sex at all during this time, and use it as a time for us close without sex. We sit on the couch and snuggle, we give each other backrubs, things like that. Those are the things that make me still feel at all desirable. Though they don't get me horny, they do give our relationship a healthy aspect in that we realize that we do not have to be screwing to be intimate.
     
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    lol, you know, i've offered him head during my period, and he has always refused. but then he isnt BJ crazy like some men ive been with, he doesnt want to finish that way ever, even though i have BEGGED him to cum in my mouth before, so maybe he figures since he will only get to finish through that he'd rather wait.
     
  5. Osiris^

    Osiris^ Creepy as fuck son OT Supporter

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    heh heh. ;)
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

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    I pretty much feel anything but sexy while on my period...But if I'm drunk or :420:, that's a different story, because my issues fly out the window...
     
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    Most women I've been with don't feel very sexy, it's understandable, they maybe more hot and wanting though.
     
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    :rofl:

    *shakes head*

    Are you really complaining about 3 to 5 days out of the month?
     
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    heck no. you're sore down there and at times it feels like your vag is slowly being ripped out of you.
     
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    wow. surprised only one woman has come in and said she feels aroused durring her perioud. I thought it was about half and half for feels miserable or raised sex drive.

    glad my girl is good to go most times.
     
  12. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    then i asked her if she was bleeding like a stuck pig .....


    So guessing No.
     
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    I used to too. I figure that is why showers & washing machines were invented :)
     
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    horny is different than sexy :o
     
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    I don't necessarily feel sexy or not sexy. My period doesn't really have a huge affect on me. I'm more horny when I'm on my period though. I only have it once every three months because of the birth control I'm on so it's not a huge issue with us. My fiance would rather have sex than do much of anything else so I don't really know what to tell you on the giving head subject. To make her feel sexier though, I would say to cuddle with her and hug her and make her feel wanted and loved. Also, tell her she's beautiful (not hot) because that always puts a smile on my face and makes me feel a little better about myself.
     
  16. Mugen92GS-R

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    :rofl: @ some of the replies :rofl:

    Thanks for the responses, everyone.

    :love:
     
  17. stormywaters

    stormywaters Tornadoes are just wind...

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    My period is the most unsexy time ever.
    Cramps, pms, headaches, bloating and mood swings are not fun.
     
  18. Viper

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    I can tell you that the time I cut the tip of my dick trimming my pubes, I did not feel sexy. I felt paranoid.
     
  19. 98dirtybird

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    Eating a girl out while she is on her period, will get you out of a dui. I.e. pennies in your mouth.

    Ninja edit:
     
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    attemped ninja edit
     
  22. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    sex reliefs that problem.
     
  23. BedBunny

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    no.

    that said, ovulation time is when women feel their sexiest, of course.
     
  24. Madigan

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    Not even close... hell I didn't even know that was possible
     
  25. Madigan

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    Not even close... hell I didn't even know that was possible

    Edit: Shit, we're talking horny over sexy? Oh well then in that case yes. Horny as hell most of the time - plus, apparently orgasms help lessen cramps - but that still doesn't mean I feel sexy - just that I wanna flatten the bf and go to town on top of him
     

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