girls are confusing....

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  1. aznh2oman

    aznh2oman OT Supporter

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    so anyways i have been pretty frustrated with this girl for a while. we talked this morning and she said that she doesnt get emotionally attached to anyone because that is just the way she is. she said she was the opposite of me ( i guess i care about people i like too much). so i told her that there is no point in seeing or hanging out with each other anymore and i left. 2hrs later she txts me " i dont want us to be like this. i cant lose you"

    WTF.

    i dunno what to do. a part of me still likes her alot, and the other part tells me she isnt worth the trouble.
     
  2. lauren

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    sounds like she is a lot of tough talk.
     
  3. Solus Emsu

    Solus Emsu ****** U N R A T E D ! ****** -----THAT'S HOW I RO

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    :rofl:

    You are right. Women are confusing.
    I will never completely understand women. I am married and I don't get women more than ever now.

    One thing I have learned is that what women say they want and what they really want are sometimes two different things.

    Maybe it's that she actually is emotionally envolved, but she doesn't want to be.
    Maybe she wants to keep you around and does not want to lose you, but at the same time, see other people.
    Maybe by saying that, she is just being defensive against getting hurt if she emotionally gets envolved.
    Maybe it is all three of those.
    Maybe it is none of those and she really is confused and has no idea what she wants and is totally acting on emotions in the first place.

    My head is spinning now.

    I don't know what to tell you other than she obviously has some sort of feeling of attachment to you. It's up to you to figure out what that is...... If you want to deal with that still.

    I wish you the best of luck.
     
  4. aznh2oman

    aznh2oman OT Supporter

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    thanks buddy
     
  5. PocoDiablo

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    Actually, I would have TOTALLY expected her response. You're being a challenge, and showed her you had a backbone by calling it off. Women want what they cannot have... so if you do go back, just be sure to be ready to "back off" if she starts pulling crap.

    Let me know if you want to get into real details and maybe I'll put something together for you. :)
     
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    fxd :)
     
  9. Solus Emsu

    Solus Emsu ****** U N R A T E D ! ****** -----THAT'S HOW I RO

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    Very good point.

    Women do want what they can't have.

    Another thing I thought of is the "final word."

    Women want to be the ones to walk away from you, not you walk away from them.
     
  10. Kinks

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    she's not worth the trouble, you did the right thing. Trying to date someone who is different from you in those areas is a bad idea.

    I was hanging out with a nice (although superficial) girl recently and things were going in the right direction based on our conversation and what I was hearing through the friend who set us up. But actions speak louder than words, she didn't reciprocate a single thing I did. Boy was she cut when I said "let's just be friends" - I think she thought I was crazy about her :rofl:

    not these days, toots!
     
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    I love that shit, I do it all the time. The look on the womans face is fucking priceless. "What?!?!?!?" :bowdown:
     
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    brianpsx Life's a Peach

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