Girls Absolutely Disgust Me

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by xcelent, May 6, 2005.

  1. xcelent

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    1) Why do girls like the jackasses who are not good boyfriends, but not the better, kinder, loving men who will treat them as they should be?
    2) Why do they make the nice guys finish last?
    3) Why do girls feel the need for excitement from their men who they just meet?
    4) Why do girls feel that they can change people?
    5) Why are girls so "in-tune" with their emotions to a level where (excuse me for this) it's VERY gay and is MTVish?
    6) Why do girlis over-dramatize everything?
    7) Why do they always think they are right?
    8) Why do girls take their PMS out on others?

    These questions mainly apply to young girls. I'll never figure these questions out: it amazes me.
     
  2. Brian May

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    Simple answer: because their girls. Find a woman
     
  3. Luciano

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    ooooohhh man, those questions dont just apply to young girls, but the female species in general.

    Ive read a billion (yeah a fuckin billion) threads about why girls like the "bad guys" and the assholes who treat them like crap and not one has come up with a logical answer. All you can say is "they're just girls." And it sucks.
    As for the PMS thing......trust me, ive been married a long time, and like clockwork the 24-25 of every month, my wife turns into a raving lunitic. Sometimes mean and nasty, sometimes just overly emotional, everytime she has NO IDEA THAT SHE IS BEING THAT WAY. None. And PMS is not just an excuse to be a bitch.....they are all bitches at heart, but its just easier to let the facade slip a few days a month.
    As for finishing last....If you want a happy, do-anything-for-you girl, make sure she "finishes" first.
    Onto changeing people, every girl learned that from their mother. I think there is a book that gets handed down somewhere, but dont bother looking for it. its hidden as good as your porn.
    Good luck, and dont join the other team because you dont understand women. thats half the fun. You die the day you figure out how they think.
     
  4. xcelent

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    Women will change once they hit college or a little after, and they will regret everything they've done.

    Why is it that men (now I"m not talking for everyone) have more logic? I don't understand this.

    And I'd kill myself before I become the asshole-guys.
     
  5. xcelent

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    What age do they change then?
     
  6. BradUF

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    90...
     
  7. Reign

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    Well, it's just you're a sissy and undoubtedly don't know where to look. You're stereotyping by looking at the majority. I'll tell you right now, the 5% of girls worth spending your time with are generally in the places you don't look. There are girls worth finding out there you just have to be interesting, know where to find them, and know how to talk to them.
     
  8. lauren

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    guys have more logic? if you want a logic and grounded gf, date an engineering or science/med girl. they are much more analytical as a whole, and usually more chill. they can usually hold their own on most anything. :wavey:
     
  9. JordanClarkson

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    There are no women that think logically. I have not met one. They may pretend to, but their emotions are still the basis of their logic.

    Girls come into their own around the age of 40. I know it's sad, but it does take them a very long time to realize how stupid they are. Guys start out way too mature. They know what they want is to be a man. When they're in their 50's, they suddenly want to be a kid again.

    They think they are right because issues to them are not black and white. They are right because they feel that they are. Many guys insist that they are right too. The difference is that the guys know they are wrong, but their egos get in the way.

    They date jerks because they think that the nice guys are the assholes. Even the nice girls go after jerks. However, don't tell me you go after the ugly fat nerdy girls. No, you want the hot cheerleader types.

    They want to change people because they don't know wtf to do with their lives. It gives them a sense of purpose. But guys go out and find a slut or stripper and then expect her to become nice and wholesome. Or they find nice girls and try to turn them into sluts.

    Life and relationships are confusing for both parties. That's what makes it so fun.
     
  10. xcelent

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    Aluyminyum, good response, made me pretty happy. I bring this up because of a certain situation that I am in with a certain girl. If you want, I can post what I am in and see how you all feel?

    Just to add another to the list, 9) Why do girls put men down for talking about sex and the things that go with it when they are (or should be) just as interested?

    And my last thing I'd like to say is that I posted this to see what you guys think. I wanted a different opinion to see if I was wrong.
     
  11. lauren

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    from a female perspective:
    1) bc people like to be notice, like attention. even bad attention is better than being ignored. kids act the same way.
    2) bc nice guys are usually less assertive, or considered 'dorky' this will pass once the females biological clock kicks in and security and family are more important than coking it up at frat parties. note, many girls love nice guys, but are unaware that nice guy likes them bc nice guys are usually too shy to approach to girl and ask them out.
    3) borderline personality disorder to a point. having a project makes them feel usefull and productive. i find this happens most with girls who arent doing anything productive with their own lives. if the girl has a real major or job, then they can find there excitement places other than guys. this is just immaturity.
    4) see 3, its a project. since little they have this 'idea' of what they are attracted to. the idealize a certain expectation and they find a guy who meets as many criteria as possible, and like to'fix' the whats left. once again, inexperiance and immaturity in the girl. later they will realize that clothes and a haircut wont make the guy perfect.
    5) in tune with emotions? dunno what you are talking about. i dont even know what i want all the time and im pretty levelheaded. i dont cry, or get hysterical or even raise my voice....not all girls are emotional; i know sevral guys who would cry before my gfs shead a tear.
    6) back to borderlin personality disorder. they like the attention and the rush from high action. guys do the same thing, but they ride motorcycles. the need for excitement in life is not something found only in the female sex, but the different sexes get their kicks by different means.
    7) this is a broad generalization. unfounded.
    8) horemons and pain that is present during pms is very real, and does make some people behave differents. if you guys where in a lot of pain, dont you think you would be a little snappy too? not saying its an exuse. not all girls get pms, and those that do i doubt 'take it out' on guys intentionally. not many people actually like being a bitch.
     
  12. D

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    I sincerely want to thank you for this qualification.
    So does the rest of OT, because it means I'll go away quietly now. :hsugh:
     
  13. xcelent

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    D, I'm only 17 and at this point I'm fed up with most girls. The situation I am in applies to this and only edges at me more and more every day. I don't know any older women besides those whom I am family friends with...so the only experiences I have are with 20 and under year olds.

    To respond to lstill25' #8 response, when I am in pain I never take it out on others. vbmenu_register("postmenu_35626270", true);
     
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    When I was your age I seem to recall feeling the same way about guys.
    Maybe take a break... Next time around find a female a litle more centered, & grounded. Perhaps with similiar interests, & tastes?
    I don't know. Nobody has the answers. Look at the spats on this board.
    I wish you luck, man. :dunno: :hugot:
     
  15. Improvolone

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    Girls in high school do not = girls in the real world
     
  16. xcelent

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    Would you care to help me with my particular situation which I do find quite interesting?
     
  17. JordanClarkson

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    Sure, post it.

    They tease guys about being horn dogs because they don't want to seem like sluts. Guys tend to feel strange about girls who are very open about sex.
     
  18. SkyLeach

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    Well I agree with at least part of every post here.

    They are women. They are girls. They grow up or they don't. You will never understand them. I will never understand them.

    But you will never change them either. You need to figure out how to hit it besides whining about it 'cause women are attracted to strength more than anything else and whining < strength.
     
  19. xcelent

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    I agree, I tend to feel weird around girls who do act slutty. However, they should be able to talk about it with no problem (in my opinion).

    If it is okay with you all I'd like to post my situation tomorrow in this thread because I need sleep for the SAT2s.
     
  20. audrey

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    Those are all pretty large generalisations.
     
  21. Improvolone

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    Yea, you're in high school, your understanding of females is far from complete. Realise, you just made yourself a hypocrit.
    You think girls should be able to talk about sex, but you think of them less when they do.
     
  22. Two toys

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    so are you..




    Solution to thread starter.. become an asshole
     
  23. BoypussY

    BoypussY game over.

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    best response in the whole thread. nice guys are usually shy and can't get the courage to say whats on their mind. on the other hand, assholes dont give a f*ck and will make a move...and in most cases the girl will accept cus the "nice guy" shes been waiting for never showed up.
     
  24. Kinks

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    chicks in engineering?

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    no such thing.
     
  25. lauren

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    uh, yeah, there are ton. not all ugly too. mechanical eng. here. :wavey:
     

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