Girlfriend's psycho ex

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  1. Seadee456

    Seadee456 New Member

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    I just learned last night that my girlfriend's ex still psyco contacts her i.e. Myspace messages and calling. My gf says she does not answer his calls but he leaves messages saying how his life is going to crap without her. It's pretty pathetic if you ask me. I'm afraid it is going to get worse becuase I've also learned that he used to force my gf to do things she didn't want to and was also in juvie for killing somebody and sexual assault. It's not really my fight, but should I step in?
     
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    Tell your gf she needs to cut ties with him because he doesn't sound stable. Which relationship is more important to her? Yours or his?
     
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  4. iwishyouwerebeer

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    How long ago did they break up?

    It's been said before and the TS always scoffs (which is stupid). But if the phonecalls are a few times a week she needs to keep any voicemails and she can get a restraining order. Though she first (if she hasn't already) needs to at least speak to him once or write him once that he needs to please stop contacting her and move on with his life, that she has and that she will no longer answer his attempts again.

    And NO, why the fuck when these threads are made do the guys always ask if they should "step in?" It's none of YOUR business. It's up to your gf to step up and make a move. If she gives a damn about you she will. I know I would.
     
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    Let the situation play out.

    The only time it should become your fight or requires you to do something is if her safety is threatened and immediate action on your part is necessary to recapture her safety.

    If threats start, tell her to call the cops. When a girl dumps a guy and gets back into another relationship the rebound guy (you) needs to expect he still might be trying to contact her... it's pretty normal.
     
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    So he emails her on myspace with stuff she doesn't like, but she hasn't blocked him?

    And I'm sensing a little BS...in juvie for killing a guy and she hasn't done anything...come on
     
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    are you certain she's not still seeing him?
     
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    Fucking leave her.
     
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    Psycho. Sounds like the kind of guy who would kill the person dating his ex (you). Make sure your gf doesn't mention you.

    But seriously tho, restraining order.
     
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    The hell it's not. If some guy is harassing my gf I'm going to do something about it.

    This story has problems though.
     
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    And not because i love your avatar ... but yeah, I love your avatar.
     
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