I know this has come up before, but thought I could get some responses to this specific situation. I recently found out that my girlfriend of 2 months has had probably between 10 and 15 partners. Less than half of them were from relationships, and the rest was from her college/party days, which was about 3 years ago. She tells me that she thinks about this every day with disgust and how her past haunts her. She admitted that she made mistakes and was looking for love/companionship in the wrong way. Though, I can't seem to get these images out of my head of this type of activity--it kinda sickens me to think about it. She said she had changed after she graduated college and never slept around again. Going into the relationship, I knew she was a wild/energetic girl, but I didn't know she partook in that behavior. I know I have to accept that she is now a different person and that I love her for who she is now and she loves me (but the images still remain). She also has a hard time letting go/forgiving herself for the past. Has anybody been in this situation? How do we forget the past and look to the future? I know the answer is obvious, but I just wanted to get some opinions.