Just wanted to get a little input on this. I'm 20 she's 19. I decided to grow my facial hair out into a little goatee. I've only been growing it for a week, not much yet, but its getting there. Tonight was the first night the girlfriend has seen it, and before I started she told me that she didnt think it would look good, and that I shouldn't do it. Tonight, she refused to kiss me, because when we kissed it felt "itchy". Basically she wants me to shave it. I don't really want to, I'd like to see what it looks like grown out, and I finally have a job where I can so I want to. I think she's being a bit immature about it, but when I said something she said I was being immature by not backing down about it. What should I do? We've been going out 7 months, and I don't want something this retarded to be the end of the relationship. I also don't want to back down on it.. because I've wanted to grow it since before we went out, and if I do it because she said so, I'm just gonna feel whipped. How do I make her understand?