I'm 21, she's 19, been going out a year. Background on me: I work part time (new job) and go to school full time, tues and thurs. I live a ways away from school so I have to get up at 5:30am to get there for an 8am class. I was talking to my girlfriend this evening and she said she was sad. I asked her to explain more, and apparently its becaise this guy that her roommate is "seeing" has been over to their new apartment more times than I have been. She feels that I don't make enough time for her with school and work. I just started this job, and just got my schedule today. Since I need cash, I told her I had to withhold making plans for the end of this week until I found out my schedule. She took that as I dont want to see her. She also works part time and goes to school part time. Sometimes our schedules conflict. I try to make it work, and never complain about her scheduling. She chooses to make mine the problem. It scares me that I got this on the FIRST DAY of a new job. She did this at my last job too. I worked for a summer camp, and when I was getting us ready for the pre-season, I was working 14 hour days. She claimed I was a workaholic and didnt care about her even though I made time for her. I love her, and care about her, but I think she's being a bit rediculous in her demands when she knows what my obligations are. Hell I just finished my homework now after work. She is important to me, but I'm not going to put my girlfriend ahead of school when I'm so close to finishing, or work when I need money to pay my bills. What should I do?