SRS Girlfriend troubles

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  1. thepornokid

    thepornokid New Member

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    Me and my girlfriend have known each other for at least two years, and basically always loved each other. Just until maybe a month ago our relationship got really serious and we really love each other. I know you might say, wow she’s way younger than you, or something along those lines, but she acts a lot more mature than her age, and she looks a lot more mature as well. She is about to be 13, and I’m about 15 and a half. Please, please don’t tell me she’s to young or grow up or stuff along those lines. Our relationship also happens to be long distance, me being on the west coast, and her on the east. She has to go to bed earlier which is really hard on me. I get somewhat depressed, close to crying sometimes, because I can’t be in contact with her on the phone or online. This is usually/especially typical right around the time I have to go to bed or later in the night. Not only that, but just this week she had to move (to a close by town) so she cant get online when I cant be on the phone (I only have so many minutes a month on my cell :( ), so that our time together recently is just talking on the phone for maybe 40 minutes total a day. Pretty soon though, she will at least be able to talk to me longer online. Also, in the summer, she will be visiting me for at least a month, which I can’t wait for (times 11tybillion; same with her). If I left anything out please tell me and Ill give you the info. If you have any suggestions so I don’t miss her so damn much, or anything helpful for me that would be really appreciated. Did I say I loved her more than anything?


    Thanks.
     
  2. Myst

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    I'm not going to dismiss your feelings by saying you're both young, your feelings are just as valid as any adults. (Iremember those years well). You are going to have to live with the fact that you are in a long distance relationship, and that brings many restrictions.
    My advice is that when you can't talk to her, and you are missing her, sit down & write to her. Send the letters to her once a week or so. It will release some of the anxiety you feel about not being with her. She could do the same. Then, when you're missing her, you'll have her words on paper to read & comfort you.
    By the way, make sure you don't make her your whole life, a healthy relationship includes time for friends & family as well. Don't spend all your life at a keyboard. She will still exist even though you aren't online with her every moment.
     
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    wow, I am kinda skeptical about all of this......... all I can suggest is try to get some hobbies or play some sports or something. Just try to find some things in your life that make you happy other than this girl. At any age being this attached to a girl can not be very healthy. You need to get out and hang out with friends and focus on other parts of life than just your girlfriend.
     
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    thepornokid New Member

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    Uhhh, I do.

    Well I've gathered that there isnt anything to do, I've asked many including this forum and didnt find any real help, so Ill just keep missin her.

    Thanks anyways guys.
     
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