Girlfriend sitting on my lap

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  1. iSnipeCattle

    iSnipeCattle OT Supporter

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    Me and my girlfriend do not have sex, or anything sex related. (We are 16.)
    We are waiting until marriage.
    But when she sits on my lap, and sometimes when we kiss, I get hard.
    Will she get freaked out about this kind of thing?
    What do I do about it? Do I try to hide it? How do I hide it?

    Thanks for any help!
     
  2. Mass0r

    Mass0r Kisses and Smuggles OT Supporter

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    good luck on the waiting
    (i mean really, good luck, not in a sarcastic way)


    and unless she was just on your lap for the first time ever, she probably felt it and knew what it was

    don't know how old/mature you guys are but it's a natural reaction, it doesn't mean it's going to start looking for holes to penetrate

    women need to realize if they feel it getting hard downstairs, don't get grossed out or flattered. all men need is some friction
     
  3. iSnipeCattle

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    But i'm wondering since she doesn't have any experience with sex, (and I don't either) if she will freak out over a boner.




    What is AE?
     
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    She might freak out a lil. When I was 14, my bf would ask I could feel him get hard when we made out. I didnt have ANY experience with sex, so it definitely freaked me out a lil. If she does freak out, hopefully its only a little.

    And if you are trying to stay virgins until you are married, you may wanna hold off on any heavy kissing, or sitting in laps, and make sure you always have a chapperon. I dont know when you plan on 'getting married', but waiting is a lot more difficult than it sounds. (I know from experience) So, take every precaution if you are serious.
     
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    AE i believe is alter ego???? as in, is this another poster who made a new account.
     
  6. Dahlia

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    What are your reasons to wait until marriage?
     
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    LOL I've been having sex since 15, it was definitely the best decision ever.
     
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    Emfuser Nuclear Moderator Super Moderator

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    You can't really "do" something to suppress what's totally natural. Your dick gets hard because your body thinks you're going to have sex.
     
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    You'd best be allowing yourselves to at least do some second base work, feeling up and whatnot. If you're not going to be having any sexual release with each other, thats just gonna be making you get even harder every time you're doing something, so you might as well just learn to work with it, or else your only options are either for any physical contact to be extremely awkward, or to have no physical contact whatsoever until marriage.

    But for the love of god, DO NOT rush into a marriage just for the sake of having sex.
    My personal advice, allow yourselves everything short of actual sex. Let some hand and mouth action happen, that way you'll get the sexual release you need, but you still have actual sex to look forward to.
     
  11. Ford4Life

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    A chick placing her ass in the general area of your cock will usually make it get hard, yes. :hsugh:
     
  12. iSnipeCattle

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    How did you freak out?
    Did you view the person differently, or not want to be around him as much or anything?
    We both made a commitment to do this, im not worried about giving in to nature. :wiggle:

    Religious.
    But that is beside the point.
     
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    i was retarded when i was 16 too. i regret not having sex with the girl at that time to this day.
     
  14. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Is he allowed to be in the Vag if he is 16??
     
  15. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    I don't care, I just remember there was an 18 years old age limit thing or something when I signed up:dunno:
     
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    But yeah, good luck waiting until marriage.

    16 is late over here now adays, i was a late starter (late 18)

    i mean girls getting banged at like 11 over here now :o

    Anyway, no she won't get freaked out by it, she'll know what it is.

    If anything she'll like that she turns you on :hs:
     
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    wear it proud bro
     
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    Lost it when I was 10....been pumpity pump pumpin' for almost 20 years now!
     
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    The temptation to express the silliness of what you're doing is very strong. I'm sure someone else will do it though.
     
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    What is silly about what i'm doing?
     
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    It's just that most people here think your decision to wait until marriage to have sex is naive and foolish. I'm going to say that I, somewhat, agree with them. What I'm concerned with is that you're going to end up like my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend. He dated a girl for like four years in high school and she didn't want to have sex until she was married. She dragged him on and on, at one point saying that she'd give it up if they were engaged just to keep him around. Eventually he wised up, dumped her ass, then started going out with my current girlfriend and I'm pretty sure he ended up regretting how much time he spent with this girl who was leading him on, instead of going out and hooking up.

    If you are 100% confident that it will work in the long run, and you have absolutely no doubts about it, then more power to you and I wish you the best of luck. If it's a personal, religious choice for you, then alright. However, if it's something that she convinced you into [waiting] then I would suggest you seriously weigh the issue in your mind.

    As far as the original post, she may freak out a little bit at first but to be honest she should dig that she gets you all randy.
     
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    This.

    And I asked because I was honestly wondering. And religion always makes sex out to be some bad thing, when it's really not. It's fun and enjoyable and everyone does it. Waiting for marriage can end badly.

    And yea deborah, spice sub forums are supposed to be 18 and up.
     
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    Most of the time, a girl knowing you are getting hard actually turns her on.
     
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    Probably not when she's 16, inexperienced and doesn't want to have sex.
     
  25. iSnipeCattle

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    We don't view it as a bad thing. Nearly the opposite. We view it as a luxury that a married couple should have.
    How can it end badly?

    Yea... that is what i am worried about. :ughd:
    What do you recommend I do?
     

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