is this in her head or something? quick background, i was promoted and transferred to a job about 80 miles away from my girlfriend. used to see each other almost everyday. now it's just on the weekends. she always suffered from frequent headaches (including severe migraines) but it just seems that during the weekends when i'm with her, she's fine. then come during the week it just seems like everytime i talk to her, she's not feeling well. - whether it be a headache, nausea, or something else. she's extremely attached to me, more so than i am to her. dont' get me wrong i love her to death. but she struggles when we're apart. and i wonder if this is just some mechanism she uses to deal with it - convinces herself that she's not feeling well to the point where she really doens't feel well. kinda scary to think that 80 miles separation for 4 days out of the week causes such a thing but it just seems to be true. friday night she's happy as can be. by monday night, it's a headache that lasts through thursday. it's almost routine now. if this all sounds crazy, i could understand but i'm trying to reason with this. thanks for any help.