my girlfriend is really laid back and i guess thats a good thing, but it always feels like she doesn't need me at all. It feels like I always initiate hanging out with her and when we hang out shes happy and stuff, so I can't understand why she can't initiate something once in a while. It always seems as if she doesn't give a crap about anything, and it really bothers me when it feels like something should bother her at least a little but she will just go on like nothing happend. If i didn't go over to her place or didn't initiate something, i'm sure she can just go on without seeing me, which bugs me a shitload because i wanna see her but it feels like she'll be just as fine if i didn't. I'm in college and we live like 30 ft apart. I just feel awful a lot of the time now because of this and I feel like a needly little bitch, but is it wrong to want to feel wanted occasionally? Anyone can help me out with my situation?