SRS Girlfriend passed away the other day..

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  1. DietSoda

    DietSoda New Member

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    I miss my love. :wtc:

    She was very sick and in a lot of pain. The family decided to take her off life support.

    I always believed she would be ok and make it through. It's hard to believe someone you have talked with daily and spent countless hours with is all of a sudden gone.

    I keep listening to the last message she left on my cell when she was still doing ok. I wish I had a chance to say goodbye.

    I'm not sure why I'm posting this now. Maybe I hope she can somehow see it. I miss you baby.
     
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  3. DietSoda

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    A few months back she had some type of kidney failure due to some meds she was taking. She survived that but has been really ill since then.

    She was a diabetic and anemic and just had lots of things break down on her body the past year. I never knew the full extent as she never wanted me to worry about her. I supported her and respected with what she wanted to tell me.

    She was in constant care at the hospitals so I always told myself that she would be ok.
     
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    She was lucky to have such a caring person, such as yourself, be there for her. I am sorry that you had to experience this, but I am sure she would want you to be happy.
     
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    Christ, I cant even imagine how this feels, I hope for the best for you
     
  6. tenxia

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    sorry to hear that
     
  7. Darketernal

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    She'll always be there for you in your heart, she loves you and this will be forever how you will live to remember her. Shed all the tears you need, but eventually try to live for her instead of dying in grieve for her. As i am sure she knows how much love you feel for her and she supports you and wants you to be happy.

    My sincere condoleances for your loss, we are here for you. :hug:
     
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    cant even imagine the pain. :wtc:
     
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  11. Mr. Pelham

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    Hold dear those times that you had and consider yourself honored to know her and spend a part of your life with. Sorry for the loss
     
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    That's terrible. :( But as said before, it was so wonderful of you to be there for her 100% of the way.
     
  14. DietSoda

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    Thank you all for the support and well wishes.

    It's a difficult time for me as I've never lost someone so close to me before. I've been going through our history together and trying to retain it all. There were so many good moments we had that it's difficult to let go. But the more I want to hold on the more I miss her. I know it's part of the grieving process and it helps for me to write out my thoughts.

    She was always insecure with our relationship and always cherished when I wrote her something sweet. She'd tell me that when she was lonely she'd be able to read what I'd wrote and it would remind her of how I felt. I never really understood it back then but am so thankful now that she sent me all these silly cards or scribbles that she loved me. It's something I can hold on to now aside from the memories.

    Thank you all again for lending a shoulder and listening.
     
  15. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :hug: I can't even imagine. I am so so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with both of you :(
     
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    To the OP, dude im so sorry, your poor bastard :hug:
     
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    Wow, I'm really sorry for your loss.

    I've lost a few people in my life that I was really close to and it's hard as hell. I kept waiting for them to walk through the door and say, "HAHA, just kidding" but that still hasn't happened. I miss them and sometimes I'm still very sad that they're gone but you know, I'm happy for them because I totally believe in life after life. I'm not sure I believe in all the hoopla from some religions but I do totally believe in an afterlife.

    Hang in there because it will get easier. The people don't come back but you will remember them and all the fun times you had together. I have found that there really is no way to speed up the healing. It just takes time so be patient with yourself if you're just not "getting over it" quickly enough....it's ok and it's normal for it to take a lot of time.

    My experience has been that it takes me about 2 years to get back to 100% after a close loved one passes on. I'm not wracked with grief for 2 years...more like, it's just there for a long time and after 2 years, things are much different.

    Anyways, my condolences on your loss. :hug:
     
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.
     
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    This shit shouldn't happen with good people.

    Seriously, hearing stuff like this breaks my heart.

    Take care of yourself, she would want you to live a long and happy life.
     
  21. Pride43

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    condolences
     
  22. RedZ71

    RedZ71 Large Marge sent me.

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    man that is such a terrible thing to have to go thru, im very sorry to hear of your loss.
     
  23. Vixxen

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    condolences. take care
     
  24. childofbean

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    :hug: I'm so sorry to hear about this. :( Stay strong.
     
  25. R6Tuan

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    makes me sad
     

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