to make a long story short here it is. me - 23 asian her - 25 white relationship - 3 yrs this september she dumped because she didn't love me anymore, some of the reason because of this are basically my fault. i lost contact with most of my friends in the last year. i just wanted to hang out and be with her all the time. i was needy and this past year i became a pussy. i didn't let her into my network friends because i thought they wouldn't like her. so i guarded her a bit and didn't go out and have a social life. i had no life outside her. i have some trust issues. now all i do is workout, attempt to mend old/make new friendships, work, just trying to put my life together again. its been a month since we broke up and she's seeing a new guy. my x, x's roommate, roommate's guy friend, and the new guy went camping for the long weekend. i'm a mess right now. its so hard to convince people i'm good guy still (used to do socially immoral things. right now i'm giving her space and time. but we have plans to talk on tuesday, i think i'll bump it to friday so i won't look needy.its really hard not to text or call. i'm trying fix my life first and i really love her and want to win her back...or should just not contact her anymore. i got lazy in the relationship and i know the errors in my ways and am changing. what should i do?