she goes to a house party, drinks a bit(not blackout status by any means), and ends up talking to one of her gay male friends. ive met the kid, hes flamboyant, and claims hes been dating guys for 4 years. they end up sitting o na couch, talking, and then kissing. girlfriend claims it was no touching, no toungue, and about a minute long. its the first weekend after i moved out to colorado to go to school, but we've been seperated for 3 months on other occasions with no problems. we also just spend 3 months in europe, got home a month ago she called and told me about it the afternoon following it, in tears. and sicne then has continued apologizing and saying how stupid it was. she bought a $300 plane ticket to fly out this weekend and apologize and try to fix things we've been dating 3 year 9 months what do i do? is it not a big deal since hes gay?