So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months (I chased her for over a year previous). I'm 24, shes 23. Up until last night, she was a virgin (yeah, it happened! ). It's not that shes religious or anything, she just hadnt found the right person I guess. She also told me she has never had an orgasm, and does'nt masterbate. She owns a vibrator but has never used it, says she wants the first time to be real. Here is my problem though... she can't seem to handle the sensation of getting close to orgasm through forplay & oral, she gets real close and then makes me stop and says she cant handle it. I've never ran into this... I want nothing more than to give her an amazing orgasm and bring her to the dark side . Is there anything I can do to help her be more comfortable when shes getting to that point? I already feel AWFUL that her first time wasnt great... I hadnt been laid in like 6mo, and the anticipation was incredible... which led to me lasting not long AT ALL, i mean real bad. I spent a good half hour doing other things until she basically couldn't stand it and wanted me in her. Help me get this very inexperienced girl comfortable with having an orgasm (I absolutely LOVE going down on a girl I care about, nothing is more exciting to me).