I've been with my girlfriend for about 12 months now, and she's very very shy in the bedroom. She doesn't feel comfortable with her body, and does not like to be looked at without clothes on, she also won't get on top of me because of the same reason. It usually ends up me spooning her or getting on top most of the time. I'm getting bored and want to try more things, but she often refuses because she's too shy. Don't get me wrong, she loves sex, and has probably had far more experience than I have, she's done many many things. I have a feeling that most of the stuff she's done before in the past has involved her being very drunk... I really want to be with her, but any tips on how to get her to open up? I know that she could teach me a thing or two, but how and where do I start?