...and I have no idea why. The past couple weeks, she has been really suffocating me with calling me all the time, wanting to hang out every day, and this and that. I was really looking forward last friday, as my friends and I were just gonna hang out at a party and I'd get some alone time, so that would help. Emily (gf) calls and wants to stop by because she doesn't want to go home. Reluctantly I tell her thats fine, because she was bringing some friends so my friends could hang out with hers. She gets there, everything is going fine, and I went out back to get some jello shots for them and i ran into a buddy I haven't seen in ages. I was talking to him for a good 20 minutes, and Emily comes back to check on me. Now keep in mind I was pretty lit, so I said I'm fine, thank you, and gave her the jello shots for her and her friends. After that, I was more drunk, and I came out and her and her friends were gone. There were quite a few people at the party, so I walked around the whole inside and outside of the house looking for her and asked around. No one saw them leave. I was pretty worried at that point. Her car was gone, so I called, and got no answer. I left a voicemail saying that I was worried and I just assumed she went home to get some sleep because she had to work at 6 the next morning. Now its two days later, and shes not answering my calls or texts, and 30 min ago when I called, it went straight to voicemail, but the message was different. It said, "Taking a break from life, leave a message." I left her a message, and I honestly have NO idea what is going on. I dont know if I said something that pissed her off when I was drunk or if something else happened but I'm really worried. I don't accept being drunk as an excuse for behavior, so I don't use that excuse if it was in fact me that did something. I guess there's no advice anyone can give, I just needed somewhere to vent.