Girlfriend crying after sex?

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  1. Socrates

    Socrates New Member

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    As soon as my girlfriend and I were done having sex (directly after both of us orgasming, incase one of you assholes felt like saying "She was crying because you are so bad" lol), she starting crying.

    She covered her face up with a pillow and kind of laughed about it, but she was really crying.

    I asked her why, and she said "I don't know why. There is no reason. Girl's don't need a reason to cry, we just do." --- A while later she also said "You should feel good though, because i've only cried with one other guy, so you know I reallyyyy love you."

    Can a girl give me some insight here?
     
  2. MstngJosh

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    weird. i hope someone is able to explain this madness.
     
  3. xikar

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    Women are psycho...thats why i love them :run:
     
  4. DenimA4CVT

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    Gals are really emotionally attached when they are having sex. Crying, just like screaming and moaning; are ways to enjoy the pleasure you have given her.
     
  5. snowboard_queen

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    that is pretty strange
     
  6. Cerridwen

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    Actually it's pretty normal ;)
     
  7. Miss Red

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    I've cried during sex twice. Once because it was the first time i orgasmed and i thought he and i would last forever ( yes I was soo young and stupid) and the other night because it hurt.
     
  8. Socrates

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    It didn't hurt my girlfriend, so maybe it is the latter choice?
     
  9. gsxec

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    Damn dude your a pimp! Gratz on the awsome performance. Beware - Shes probably in love you with you at this point, good luck letting her go if shes not the one you want.
     
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    I've cried post-sex before. :hsughno: With the exception of two times, it was with my ex of two and a half years. The other times were with a hookup I had; once was because I hit my head on the bedpost, the other time was because I realized that I'd fucked up a good prospect with sex. :o
     
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    maybe daddy didled her
     
  12. Guardfather

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    Sometimes the emotions are so strong and overwhelming that a woman will cry. The emotions could be positive or negative. It sounds like your girlfriend was very happy and quite possibly crying tears of joy.
     
  13. Soulfire

    Soulfire No Pain, No Gain

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    Its really not hard to believe. Women cry when they are proposed to as well, and they obviously arent sad. Our strongest emotions can't be shown in a facial expression or words so nature invented crying for both ends of the spectrum (of emotion).
     
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    Soulfire No Pain, No Gain

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  15. Marijuanair

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    Women do shit like that, I dont get it. My wife just crys every other week for a hour for no reason at all. She tells me things "build up" and she cries to release stress :hsughno:
     
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    Typical...like she said "women dont need a reason to cry"...ive heard those exact words before.

    Just hope you are in for the long-haull...cause she sure is.
     
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    I have never cried aftersex. So I really couldn't help you.
    I think that if you just keep the communication open,and she says there's no problem, I wouldn't worry too much.
    Maybe some do just cry?
     
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    I had sex with my current gf and it was kinda soon after her breaking up with her last bf, ewhich she never has done before ( I guess I was the rebound w/e) and she cried after that. I got really mad at first but I had a good reason to. We talked about it and shit.

    I'm glad I did cause we've dated for almost 8 months and she's a great girlfriend.
     
  19. ProneToEpisodes

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    Ive cried a few times after really intense sex.
     
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    Maybe she was crying because it was so bad.....

    lol just kidding of course :p
     
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    She was emotional.... women are very emotional and during sex it peaks.. blamo
     
  22. Cerridwen

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    What is so wrong with crying? It is a huge relief to cry sometimes (not talking post sex crying here).

    Post orgasm crying is fairly 'normal' for me. An orgasm is such a huge release of emotions and it has nothing to do with being sad. Sometimes things like that simply can't be helped. It isn't anything my husband has done wrong or anything like that.
     
  23. lauren

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    ive only cried when it hurt. dunno.
     
  24. gsxec

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    Maybe she poked a whole in the condom when you werent looking, and felt like shit you blew your load? Just a though, can never be to sure...

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  25. RougeOgre

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    Agreed..

    It also sometimes happens after a kick-ass massage, too!
     

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