Girl won't talk to you anymore

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  1. brianpsx

    brianpsx Life's a Peach

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    There's a girl I know from church and we grew up together. We were friends and about 3 yrs ago she asked me to help her move into her apartment, so I did. We ended up hanging out a few times and I kissed her on the cheek, but I made a stupid comment, "i know you liked it." on the last date. She ended up just ignoring my calls and blocking me on AIM. So I just backed off. I just sent her a message on facebook to see how she's doing and how I do care how she's doing. She just ignores me also. I mean I just wanna make sure she's doing alright, be friends, whatever. I can provide more info if needed, but its pretty straightforward.
     
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    she can't be ignoring you because you kissed her and made one little comment.

    what else happened
     
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    I don't really get what happened, but if she doesn't want to talk to her you can't make her, move on
     
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    brianpsx Life's a Peach

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    that is exactly what happened. i wasnt tryin to sleep with her. i just got a lil excited i was so happy spending time with her.
     
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    brianpsx Life's a Peach

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    btw. the fast respones are awesome.
     
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    brianpsx Life's a Peach

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    i was really inexperienced back then. my first date. i know she was leaving the country to go on a vacation or whatever. so i just wanted to let her know how i felt.
     
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    Damn man, just let it go.

    She doesn't want to talk to you. FORGET HER and get on with your life.
     
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    brianpsx Life's a Peach

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    y wont she just say she wants me to leave her alone? ill back off, i just wanted to be friends.
     
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    brianpsx Life's a Peach

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    im going to do that, i have no choice. was it stupid to wait 3 yrs later to see how shes doing? lol.
     
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    It's a little psychotic. :dunno:
     
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    Let it go, man. She's shown you she doesn't want to talk to you. Take the hint already and move on... don't be a creep.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    whatever that means..
     
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    oh you were literally saying that he is showing symptoms of severe and chronic mental disorder.

    in that case i agree, OP, sounds like you are just about ready to murder a little boy and eat his skin. cuz, you know, you IM'ed someone after 3 years of not speaking.

    gosh i think I might have even done that once or twice... maybe i should check myself into a psychiatric ward before i do any serious damage.

    good thinking viper a++
     
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    Glad I could help.
     
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    mmmm skin
     
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    she has zero interest in you

    she doesn't want to see you or interact with you in anyway

    its not because of that one comment i assure you

    if somehow it is she's insane anyways
     
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    brianpsx Life's a Peach

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    i just wanna thank everyone for their feedback. im not all sad about the situation, but ill admit in the past i got pretty down over it. i put all my trust into a girl i never spent time with hoping she' be the one. i learned alot and i believe life is all about experiences and learning from them. during those 3 years, i went from being a skinny wimp to a much improved physique. i also learned to take control of my life and not wait around for a girl to fall into your lap.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    What do you propose? Structural monogamy? Sounds awesome
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    i don't know what he meant. i've im'ed people i didn't speak to after years simply because i was bored at work and they showed up on my buddy list. whatever, he just made a stupid comment, this is the internet after all.

    op, sounds like she's just asocial, don't worry about it.
     
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    Yes you did. You just felt a need to take me literally and stir up shit. :dunno:
     
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    Lolz. You didn't mean anything by it dude just quit it. What you said doesn't mean anything, nor was it productive, regardless NO this is not a case of mental illness or even social retardation... don't say useless shit and you won't have to worry about anyone stirring it up.
     
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    Girls make up the rules in their world. For some reason they think when you want them to leave you the fuck alone it's okay to call you and text you asking to go for walks in the park. Then when you do the same thing when they're obviously not feeling it they're like, ":ugh: what's wrong with this guy?"
     
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    ok i have an update. she did send me a reply. she pretty much told me how she's happy im doing well and how she's going to grad school soon. she also said this:

    what else, i understand which "moment" you might have been referring to, its fine, its in the past, and i'm not too big of a prude to make something like that a big deal. thanks again for helping me move that was really nice of you.

    i mean, id like to set something up and meet in person. would it be wrong to ask her why she didnt want to talk to you anymore?
     
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    i just got off work and your grammar is horrendous.

    would it be wrong for ME to ask why she hadn't wanted to talk to ME?

    yes. i don't know the lady.

    would it be wrong for you to ask her why she hadn't wanted to talk to you?

    you should feel free to ask it.

    asking it will produce a SHITTY SHITTY response, because you will be coming in from a passive-aggressive frame which never does the passive-aggressor any good. just so you know. but in the grand scheme of things, is it wrong to be direct with somebody, and say, "hey, what's the deal, how come you didn't want to talk before?"

    not at all. ineffective yes, wrong no

    however, how do you know she didn't want to talk to you? are you just inferring this based on the fact that she'd been impossible to reach, or did she say that she didn't want to talk to you?

    viper don't flame the op
     

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