SRS Girl troubles...

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  1. MrFaldyn

    MrFaldyn MrFaldyn

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    (copy and pasted from what i wrote to one of our friends :( basically i'm insanely in love with this girl, but she doesn't love me back. i wrote the girl a note saying how i felt about her. my friend asked me what i said in the note and i said this)

    I told her that i loved looking at her with a weird face or doing something crazy with my eyes just so that i could see her smile. i didn't tell her this, but i loved the rare oppurtunity that i was able to look her right in the eyes for a few seconds and just smile. of course she would look away and say to stop, but it still felt so good while it lasted. at prom, even just sitting there with her was amazing. she looked SO good. everytime i looked at her i couldn't believe i was there with her even if we were just there as friends. i wish i could have had her lay her head on my shoulders on the way home in limo or sit next to me during the movie, but even though that didn't happen, just being with her was an excellent substitution. again, i'm going off saying stuff that's just going to end up hurting me even more, but i can't keep it in anymore. obviously when i told her stuff like this is weirded the hell out of her. so much so that she couldn't even look me in the eyes during lunch and i guess it was hard for her to even sit next to me. she didn't talk to me or look at me after lunch. she walked the opposite direction to one of her classes to avoid me walking with her, so i didn't try to follow her and just went to my class. you don't know how much that hurt. all the hurt is because i told her how i feel about her. just like i wish i could go back in time to go through another prom night with kristina, i wish i could go back and not tell her how i felt. ok, now that i'm on the verge of tears (yes, quite gay. i know) i'm gonna go ahead and stop writing about this and hopefully i'll be able to stop thinking about it for a little while. it's just really hard to stop thinking about someone who you have such strong feelings for i guess.
     
  2. thepornokid

    thepornokid New Member

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    Well Im not the best at giving advice, especially after my relationship problem I've now offically ended. Anyways, my advice would be to find someone else. I know this will hurt you, but Im sure it will hurt a lot more to love her while she doesnt love you back, and possible loves some other guy. I suck at english. What Im saying is it will hurt less to find someone else, than to continue and love this girl while she doesnt love you back. I hope that helped.
     
  3. chica&buddies

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    i'm sorry how she reacted to you when you told her your feelings... a lot of guys (and girls :o) have a hard time telling people how they truly feel. it's awesome that you're so open with your feelings, so don't ever change that! :) that said... her reaction shows me just how immature she is. if she was a mature, good friend of yours, she would have automatically discussed with you what you had told her. even if she doesn't feel the same way, there are adult ways of going about conveying that to the other person. her way was not so adult-like. :slap:

    i realize that you have strong feelings for her. believe me, i've been there, too...we all have. everyone has a different way of dealing with things. the most important thing to keep in mind is yourself. if you aren't able to take a step back, for the sake of your feelings and thoughts, etc... and realize that things between the two of you will never materialize into more than a friendship, it may be necessary for you to remove yourself from her for the time being. i'm not saying to cease friendship, but why would you want to subject yourself to being hurt every time you saw her? :sad2: time doesn't heal all wounds... it's what you do with that time that does. so, if you decide to take some time away to regroup, so to speak, make sure you devote some time to yourself instead of dwelling on the matter :)

    good luck!
     
  4. Darketernal

    Darketernal Watch: Aria The Origination =)

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    Well at least you where being honest with your feelings with her. And if she says no, you know at least that its of no use to wasting your effort in her, and move on with your life to be with someone that does want to be with you.
     

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