I've recently been hanging out with a girl I briefly had a thing with in high school. Little background: I liked her a lot in high school but things ended pretty quickly. I go off to college and a year later when I come back for summer we start hanging out once again. Nothing too physical, just some making out. That lasted for about a month and I went back to college. We manage to stay in contact for the next 3 years, but barely. I think we saw each other one time in those 3 years. My senior year she comes up to hang out and apparently told my friend that she wants me. I had a serious gf at the time so nothing happened. Two more years pass by and we aren't in contact too much until now. I move back home to save some money and she is done with school so she is living at home as well so we start hanging out again. I contacted her first to see if she wanted to do something, but for the next couple weeks she is the one contacting me to see if I want to do something with her. She seems to genuinely want to hang out with me which was surprising. She has been known to flake. So we hang out a couple times and go to some bars. We have a good time but there is nothing physical happening. Two weeks ago I invite her out to my new apartment to drink and go out to the bars with some friends. She comes up and we get a little drunk and she ends up sleeping in my bed, but still nothing physical happens. Instead she asks what I think about me and her. I basically told her I find her very attractive, but I'm not looking for anything serious right now. She says the same thing to me. Then she says that she wants to take it slow and get to know me again. During this conversation I found that I had put my arm around her and she let me know that "She wasn't sure about that" so I removed my arm. I thought that was a little odd. We then proceed to lay in my bed and talk about random stuff for the next hour and a half even though it was like 3 am. Overall I thought it went well. I had fun with her. What I took away from the conversation I had with her was that she likes me again, but doesn't want to rush into it and possibly ruin it. I'm fine with this. She leaves early the next morning and I realize she forgot a bunch of her stuff so I text her to let her know. She responds, and I text her back saying she'll just have to come hang out again. I didn't get a response but didn't really think anything of it. Two days pass and I found something else she might have left and texted her to see if it was hers. Again I get no response. It's now been two weeks and I haven't heard a peep from her and I have made no further attempts to contact her since my last two went unanswered. Normally, this kind of thing wouldn't bother me, but for some reason I am extremely attracted to this girl. I have no idea why. I would like to hang out with her again, but I'm not sure if she wants to. Right now my gameplan is just to wait it out until she contacts me. What do you guys think? Is she playing games? Is she not interested anymore? This has been bothering me the past week and I'm trying to think of something I did wrong, but I can't think of anything. My roommate thinks she might have something emotionally wrong with her, or she is insecure about something. I can't figure it out. What would you guys do in my shoes? Cliffs: Started hanging out with girl I had a thing with back in the day. Sleeps in my bed, have talk and says she's interested again but wants to take it slow. It's been two weeks since then and haven't heard word from her since despite texting her twice.