Girl Problems V. Advice ?

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  1. flip24

    flip24 Active Member

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    OK, so this girl and I started talking about last January, liked each other from the start and she pretty much told me she wanted to be with me. Well, around this time, I was messing around with this other girl for sexual reasons.. so this stopped me from being in a relationship with the girl i really liked.

    Now, I guess she kind of felt that we didn't talk as much after a while. So one of her very very good friends asked her out and she said yes. I found out a month later and didn't think anything of it. Fast forward to couple weeks ago... We got really close again. We talk everyday on the phone, I go over almost every day and shes even told me shes wanted to be with me and made a mistake by getting with her friend. Her mom likes me for her, as well as her sister liking me for her. We tell each other we love each other and stuff.. But she has not broken up with her bf yet. I'm guessing she's afraid to ruin her relationship with her bf as of now. Afraid to might not have him as a friend after they break up. So what do I do OT? stick this out and wait or what? :hs:
     
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    Honestly just be there for her through it all. Don't be that guy that tries to steal her away. You put her on standby for another girl..so why would she drop what she has on her plate for you?

    I understand you wanting her now but in all reality bro, stick it out and wait.

    Things will go your way i'm almost positive.
     
  3. flip24

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    I really needed to hear this...thanks bro.
     
  4. Cobra Commander

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    Anytime man. Check back for others advice as well.

    I just hope you take things slow..especially with a girl that you really like.
     
  5. flip24

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    Oh yeah I am, I have no intentions of making any kind of move on her right now.. even though everybody tells me I should. Just going to play it safe and wait.
     
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  7. ChipOnShoulder

    ChipOnShoulder New Member

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    "Never make someone your priority, when they only make you an option."

    you are clearly just an option at this point. don't read too deep into her words and actions, and i'd avoid anyone who didn't do what they wanted to and said what they meant.

    What sweet words do you think she is telling her current BF.

    And most importantly FUCK what her mom and sister think of you. All my ex'es families thought the world of me, but that didn't mean shit for our relationships. It's "nice" but it really doesn't matter when you're out there pursuing girls.
     
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    :rofl: So perfectly said.
     
  9. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    So she's with someone else and tells you she loves you and you think that is a good thing? :hsugh: Good luck. :rofl:
     
  10. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Sounds like a classy broad.
     
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    Been there, done that. Zone of friends.

    Might be just me but waiting around for her is worst thing you can do.
     
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    i agree w. cobra.

    the girl liked you. you dissed her. she finds another guy but deep down still wants to be with you.

    if the roles were reversed i doubt any of us would simply dump the current SO w.o second thought.

    she is saying she loves you bc she does. sure it sucks for the current bf but i do not think it makes her a bad person.

    dont try anything and wait it out if you feel like it. my guess is that it wont take long.
     
  14. flip24

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    We started to like each other before she met that guy shes with right now though... it's different.
     
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    hope so :hs:
     
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    Go date 12 other girls.
     

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