Ive been trying to get with this girl for a while now. We went on our first date like eight months ago. Things went so-so... no definite signs of attraction. Ever since then shes always had this issue with "cold feet" she would bail on the last minute. She bailed probably around three times before our second date when we just watched a movie and then parted ways. She bailed on me a few more times. Then she finally invites me to go clubbing in the city with her, to which I kindly turn her down but then tell her I'll go to the city with her if it's just her and I, to which she agrees. She says we should reschedule and blah blah blah, typical cold-feetness but then I just convince her that we should keep our plans. Things go amazing, best date I've ever been on. We managed to talk the entire hour and twenty minute drive to the city. We ate at a nice semi-expensive restaurant on the pier, went shopping for a little bit, went back to my place, we watched a romance movie and cuddled. After that we gave eachother massages for like a total of thirty minutes. We then went to the local street races where I beat pretty much every car there, shes sort of in to cars/racing but not really - she has a lot of guy friends that do it and she's a tomboy and goes with them to do that stuff. She met a few of my friends there. After that we agreed we were too tired to drive her back to her place and we just spent the night at my place and we shared a bed with more cuddling. (no kissing at this point) I woke up, drove her home, kissed (for the first time) and then said our good byes. I send her a text the next day, I send her a text today, no response. I wonder whats up after I dont see her online AIM when shes almost always on AIM on her phone. I gave her SN to my friend who met her to check to see if she was online and sure enough she blocked me. He asked her whats going on - She first tries to say that she got a new phone number, but then she says "he was moving too fast for me." that may very well be a concern of hers but I dont see it as justification to totally break contact with me. Its obvious she has some issues with having cold-feet. I really dont know how to address this. Maybe she just doesnt like me that much? "moving too fast" I dont really believe that seeing as how we kissed on the third date. Im really at a loss for what could be going on right now. And im not sure how to talk to her about this coming up... or even if i should talk to her and just ignore her for a while. Cliffs: have date with girl who has a history of bailing on me last minute in our previous attempts to make plans. date goes amazingly well. she stops talking to me, blocks me on aim, doesnt respond, etc... then says "im moving too fast" to which i dont really believe.