Girl is going to be sad when she comes back from Vacation, ideas to cheer her up?

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  1. SHIFT_blue

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    Ok let me re-write this.

    Theres a chic Ive known since Novemberish. Weve lately been hanging out a lot (the last 4 months) and Id say weve become somewhat close.

    Were in the military stationed overseas at a place we really dislike and miss home. And the way work is over here makes the place even worse. Bascially she hates it here.

    The girl is on vacation now. When she returns she will be sad to be back. I want to do something to cheer her up when she gets back. Any ideas?
     
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  2. SHIFT_blue

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    Not GF, a friend that I like... Which is why I dont want to do something too big.
     
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    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    I've read this thread 5 separate times now and I still have no clue wtf you're trying to say.
     
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    This isn't that hard. He and his female friend are stationed in a shithole. She's on vacation right now, and when she gets back she'll be sad that she's back in said shithole.
    He wants to cheer her up when she gets back
    jeez

    Edit, wait, you guys asked what he meant, then he edited.
     
  5. SHIFT_blue

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    Or is this just too much of a chump thing to do?
     
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    This would be correct heh.
     
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    Its kind of lame, nothing you can do will make the situation more livable, you'll just be reminding her that she's unhappy there.
     
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    Is she vacationing at home? Like, visiting her family?


    I would say make an effort to spend extra time with her. When she gets back, time permitting, set aside a weekend afternoon with nothing but her favorite movies and food, so you guys can do nothing be veg out. :dunno: That would kind of cheer me up.
     
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    anything that take your mind off the location. im military as well, and im in the sandbox, while my SO is stateside, i know when all the guys get together, we play xbox or something to forget where we are for a few hours. its nice to forget your here. (although, its the only play where i WILL sweat like a whore in confession playing...)


    118F ftl :(
     
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    Yeah she went home to visit family. I definetly like your idea shoeprincess. Seems like a good way to get her mind off it too.
     
  11. Tre003

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    Get her a little something that will remind her of home.

    When my mother went to see her family in Sicily after being away for 35 years, my dad bought her a little plant that grows wild in the town her family lives in. It went over extremely well, and it reminds her of her brothers, sisters, neices, nephews, etc. that she's only seen once since she was 13.
     
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    Either of you 2 have a SO? IF not then this idea to do something for her is fine... otherwise what are the end goal intentions? End game what do you want?
     
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    Neither of us have a SO. End game, Id like something more then friends. I have some plans to escalate by action after she gets back. But I figure I might be able to do something here to cheer her up that might also escalate?
     
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    If you want something more from all this then simply becoming more will cheer her up. It will provide a new sence of closness that has been lacking in your situation. @ home you get intamacy from people. there you dont have it yet. Taking a step will probably be all you need to do. :x:
     
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    i agree
    and i aprove
     
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    My day is now made... someone agrees :hsd:
     
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    what is your objective? do you want to date her?
     
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    i think showing her the fact you even missed her and care enough to worry about how she is going to feel when she returns will be huge.
     
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    Yes.
     
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    Cheering her up likely won't advance you towards your goal.

    Why haven't you made your intention to date her known?
     
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    I havent had a proper situation arise where I could let it be known clearly what I want. Weve been going on "dates" and hanging out. Im sure she had a hint of what I want just from those. But soon I will make it absolutely clear.

    I know I shouldnt have waited so long. But I like to get to know girls before I get serious with them. In the past it has ended in straight up friendzownage. Bue Ive been avoiding key things that will lead me there this time.

    I know Im on the border of friendzownage for life. But I also know that Im not there YET. Its a risky thing to play, but Im not just looking for a fuck.

    When she gets back, I will put things in motion to see if I can actually go further. Im new at these "actions" but I will try them anyways even if its a little later then they usually shouldve been played.
     
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    In for update when she gets back
     

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