Girl is getting breast augmentation and doesnt want me to see her till she heals

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  1. jab1983

    jab1983 40/40 crew failure with less than 1 week to go...D

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    She is my ex/current (we are on a break and its weird i don't know where we stand or what we are)

    She is getting a breast augmentation next month and doesnt want me to see her after the augmentation, Im taking her but she wants me to leave her there and for her dad to pick her up. She doesnt want me to see her because

    "I'm going to be really messed after that ive seen the programs on TV and don't want you to see me like that"

    I want to talk to her about this and tell her that im going to take the whole day of and the next so i can take care of her but i don't think she will want that, should I just accept it or try to talk to her :dunno:

    We are going out for easter and I think that this is when im going to talk to her about this, any advise on what i should say to her.


    cliffs: Taking my girl for her breast augmentation next month, she wants me to just take her and for her dad to pick her up. She doesn't want me to see her after the procedure but I want to take care of her, any advise on what I should say when i talk to her?
     
  2. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    uhm if she doesnt want you to sit there and care for her after something major like that.

    drop and run it's not worth your time anymore.
     
  3. jab1983

    jab1983 40/40 crew failure with less than 1 week to go...D

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    So i guess no one has any other advise?


    Wheres a girls point of view on this :x:
     
  4. is3lost

    is3lost New Member

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    I mean.. arent they going to covered up. Girls are crazy man.
     
  5. Epiphany

    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    Who decided on "the break". What is the situation?
     
  6. jab1983

    jab1983 40/40 crew failure with less than 1 week to go...D

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    She feels like i didn't take care of her when she got drunk on new years and I wasnt around.

    I went to the bathroom and there was a hell of a long line then I started talking to a friend, turns out some guy was trying to talk to her and pulling her hand towards the bathroom and she had to get help from a friend, says that should not have happened it should have been me.

    I didn't know it had happened and she forgot about it (she was drunk) then her friends told her about it again and they all blame me for not watching her, thats a big deal for her so we are taking a break till she feels "more comfortable with me again"

    So far all we have really done since then is make out from time to time.


    I think her friends are triyng to make sure we don't get back together, we were good for about a week and everything was nice and she got an e-mail with a picture of someguy pulling her towards a bathroom and the tittle was "Her boyfriend would have never known"

    It was sent to alot of people and when things with us were going well so my thinking is that she told her friend who found a picture and sent it with a fake e-mail, how else can some guy at a party know her e-mail so i think her friend is trying to fuck it up for me.



    I hate that i didn't know what was going on and worse that i don't know what the guy looks like so I cant kick any ones ass about it:wtc:
    Thats what happened.
    its drama, gay and stupid horseshit drama.

    Now for the advise....
     
  7. JustaMeThang

    JustaMeThang New Member

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    You're no ones babysitter(new years)....

    Nor are you anyones nurse, especially someone who doesnt want one.

    Fuck it, you offered, you pushed, she's on her own.
     
  8. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    It's odd to me that she was in such "danger" unknown to her but they had time to stop and take a snap shot of the guy trying to pull her into a bathroom?? If someone was pulling my friend into a bathroom I'd go protect her first and then take the damn picture. Not to mention with most cell phones their is delay indoors when taking pictures. Where did they find the time? They could find time to take a picture but not let you know?

    That seems a little fucked up... something aint right somewhere...
     
  10. Epiphany

    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    What did you do to piss them off? -pre new years-
     
  11. keleko

    keleko yes, he is

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    wait - she's still fucked in the head about something that happened 4 months ago?

    drop kick the bitch
     
  12. keleko

    keleko yes, he is

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    rape/spit/pics/you know the drill
     
  13. C4172

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    If you want to get back with her, then I would definately tell her that this is the time you can make it up to her (even though you really didn't do anything wrong)
     
  14. Epiphany

    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    Do no't bring that bullshit in here... this isn't the main forum.
     
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    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    :werd: re picture.

    if she's still cut over something that happened that long ago then yeah.... :rolleyes:

    also, you offered.. she said no. drop it and let her look after herself post-op.
     
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    i wouldnt want my SO to see me like that either but i would want him there for comfort. she might not want you to see her all drowsy & shit but by then 2nd day she should be fine & theres no reason you shouldnt be able to see her
     
  18. bandwagon

    bandwagon Copy/Paste

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    She wants to try out her new cans without you around.
     
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    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    wait? I didnt notice your name in bold?
     
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    dont they do implants now by just making a small (like 1cm) incision on each side?

    I know they can also go through the belly button to prevent scaring, but that is usually more pricey.

    Something doesnt sound right at all...
     
  21. JustaMeThang

    JustaMeThang New Member

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    Dont need to be a mod to note inappropriate responses.
     
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    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    well then she can note away :fawk:
     
  23. dumb_end_user

    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    In a word - no.

    Breast augmentation is a major surgery.

    They stopped doing the through the belly button procedure because the occurences of infection were too high (same for the under the arm pit procedure). The majority are done around the nipple and the incision is much larger than 1 cm.

    At any rate, the recovery takes a good 3-4 days at a minimum - that is just to be able to move around comfortably. It may take a week or two before she is even ready to go back to work.

    As far as the original question goes - you guys are broken up. Get over it.
     
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    Time for a new chick man
     
  25. jab1983

    jab1983 40/40 crew failure with less than 1 week to go...D

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    Thats with the sailene (sp) implant and she likes the feeling of the cilicone ones better. For the cilicone one they have to bo under the boob :wtc: my favorite area, the doctor told her that if she had bigger nipples they might be able to go in through there but the silicone implants need a bigger insition so they have to do it under her boob.

    She is going to pay like 5,500 and she got a discount of 750 because she was refered by a past patient, so im sure they will look nice. :x:


    Yeah im not going to beg, come to think of it I did offer so I'm just going to tell her that I'm taking the day off and if she doesnt tell me she wants me to stay then ill just go to the dentist that day and kill two birds with one stone. :bigthumb:
     

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