Girl interested, me.. not so much.

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  1. SHIFT_blue

    SHIFT_blue OT Supporter

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    A couple weeks ago me and some friends met some girls at a club and got their numbers/they got ours. At the time we all had a shitload of drinks so girls hotness levels were scewed at the time.

    Immediatly one of them starts texting me real flirty like and I do the same back. Next day I see her myspace and realize shes not all that. Shes kinda cute, but just doesnt do it for me. She also has a kid. She continues to text throughout the day. Then that night when me and my friends are done at the club she comes over to my friends house and we all get our drank on. I got pretty tore up and apparently we were real flirty all night.

    Now this was just Friday and Saturday night. Shes called a couple times and has been texting me everyday since and wants to hangout again this weekend.

    To the point, Im just not that interested. I think shed be a cool friend but thats it. How can I get this point across without being a dickass?
     
  2. MattThom01

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    Tell/text her "I'd like to keep hanging out as friends, but I don't see it being any more than that".
     
  3. MossMan813

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    Just stop contacting her...you don't owe her anything.
     
  4. Fiasco

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    Tell her you think she's cool but you're already starting to get involved with someone else.
     
  5. notsousual

    notsousual New Member

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    Is that the truth for him though? Telling the truth isn't really a bad thing. Getting rejected sucks, but getting rejected and piecing together that you got rejected with a lie after the fact sucks much worse.
     
  6. notsousual

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    Question for you though, that's not particularly related (or could be answered by all guys I guess...I'll prob make a thread soon but w/e), without alcohol do you feel you'd have been super flirty with her? Are guys often flirty with girls they aren't into/wouldn't date?
     
  7. Fiasco

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    I don't know... most people are pretty involved with themselves... technically it is the truth. :mamoru:
     
  8. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Shes a club chick dude, delete her number or store it as "do not answer"

    All done.

    Club chicks are one night chicks due to the alcohol affect. Very rarely do I meet/keep in contact with a girl I met/danced w/ in the club.
     
  9. SHIFT_blue

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    Ive in no way been flirty while sober.
     
  10. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    And? If I only kill people when I'm drunk, I'm still a murdered when I'm sober. :mamoru:
     
  11. Falconer

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    friendzone her.

    Tell her about how all girls are stupid bitches and you're glad that you have a friend like her who is honest and open and not a bitch at all.

    Then snuggle but don't have sex.




    :bowrofl:
     
  12. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :bowrofl:
     
  13. antihero

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    just fade out....
     
  14. 1979TA

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    :bowdown::bowdown::bowdown::bowdown:

    I have all my ex's saved in my phone as this. Has sved me from talking to them many times
     
  15. antihero

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    :bowrofl:
     
  16. Abomb

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    andddddddddddddddddd /thread
     
  17. tpliquid

    tpliquid Oh hi, My GF has been upgraded ^ OT Supporter

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    LOL at friendzone
     
  18. SHIFT_blue

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    Friendzone LOL! When she texts with something like "hey sexy" should I respond with something like "hey friend!" ?
     
  19. Abomb

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    yep that would be a good start :bigthumb:
     
  20. notsousual

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    Did she text you that?
     
  21. t-t-t-today

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    HAHAHA yeah you should "friendzone" her!

    All guys should friendzone girls sometimes. I just realized that i've done it a handful of times without even thinking about it.....feels good, drives em crazy.
     
  22. SHIFT_blue

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    She did actually. I didnt answer it though.
     

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