Girl in pain

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  1. CT Cubs Fan

    CT Cubs Fan New Member

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    SO being a clueless recent ex-virgin, my gf (we lost it at the same time) has still felt pain after about 4-5 times. I'm not a complete idiot, we've done the foreplay and had ky (liquid tho, don't know if it matters). She's usually on top, again I don't know if that matters.

    ibdumbvirgins but yea any advice helps :hs:
     
  2. LordOvenMitt

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    Sometimes some people take a few times to loosen up entirely. How much time elapsed between each sex session?
     
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    It does take a while. It will get better for her. In the beginning just take it slow and she will get use to it.
     
  4. razi

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    yeah, go slow, foreplay, yadda yadda. It takes a while to get adjusted if there's a size difference. girls come in different sizes, just like guys- you might just be bigger than her. patience will win the day here.
     
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    Sometimes 24 hrs, sometimes a week
     
  6. NismoOwnsYou

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    being on top would be kinda rough for her if she's new to it...get used to it first.
     
  7. fray

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    agreed. on top seems like deeper penetration to me, so I would think that might be more painful for her early on. Try a different position...and go slow. Good on the foreplay, lube, and concern!
     
  8. Spiritus

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    missionary...

    top is painful until they "get used to it" :p
     
  9. pigeon

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    i was the opposite... i preferred being on top since i felt like i could control it better... (i was a virgin he wasn't) but that was just me ;)
    we fucked like rabbits the first night and i was numb the next day... it gets better. just keep at it.
     
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    On top gives her more control on penetration. But just start out slow.
     
  11. dbman96

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    She's probably still nervous and tensed up about it too. Give her time, and as said above, letting her control the penetration can help make her feel better too.
     
  12. XERQ

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    try giving her an oil massage before starting foreplay, that will loosen and relax her

    you'll notice much difference
     
  13. curt698

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    also you may be larger than average which could extend the break in period.
     
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    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    my first was larger than avg and i think that contributed to the inital pain...
     
  16. Lovely Atlantis

    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    I always feel a bit of pain when he enters me... but as soon as I manage to get it all in it's fine. But my hubby is particularly large. So it might have to do with your size, and it might never go away. For me it's not a problem. Just momentary discomfort but then the pleasure over-rides it.
     
  17. KDSVS

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    Getting her really aroused and wet works better than any lube...
     
  18. bigmick

    bigmick The plane takes off OT Supporter

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    Stick it in her bum instead :)
     
  19. affende

    affende Resident 4X4 Elitest Prick

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    my current SO is no virgin, far from it. she and i have been having sex for at least 6 months and she still gets some pain when we first start. some girls are very small and some guys are kind of big. but as my SO says, its a good kind of pain.
     
  20. KDSVS

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    Especially if your GF never used tampons and did not masturbate....talk about a tight fit:mamoru:
     

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