Hey... not a big poster, more of a lurker. Anyways, so I met this girl in one of my groups in school. After our last meeting of the term on a Sunday afternoon, I asked her if she wanted to grab a quick bite to eat. She said yes, and we just went to a quick casual local restaurant. Things went great, and had a great convo. After we ate and were about to go our own ways I got her number. This was just the beginning of exam period so it was difficult to find some free time, but I called later that week and set up a date for the following Monday. On Monday we went out for dinner and martini's and then went for a walk and coffee. Again, things went awesome, great convo and got to know a lot about her. After I dropped her off, we kissed and told each other we had a great time. Some other background info: my friends gf, used to work and is friends with this girl. I get a call on tuesday from my friends gf saying she talked to her but couldn't say much about what they were talking about, just that they were kinda planning a double date for thursday and that i should call her now to ask her out for that day. So I call her later and she was shopping so I told her to call when she was done. The night goes by and nothing, so I call her again and left a msg thinking she might have forgot. It's now Wednesday afternoon and still no call back, but I ran into her at the library. She never mentions anything about not calling me, just the 'how are exams going'. I ask her what she is doing Thursday night, and she says she is going to dinner with her mom (after a slight pause) ... so I found that weird, so I ask her if she wants to hang out this weekend and she says ya, i'll call you. She smiles and we go our own ways.... Anyways, today my friends gf tells what she couldn't tell me that last time after our date on Wednesday because I was confused and thought this girl was acting weird. So apartently this girl is scared because she says I was really nice (thats just the way I am) and she thinks it may just be an act! So what do I do??? I'm gonna wait for the weekend to be over and hopefully she will call, but if she doesn't what do I do? Leave it be? or maybe write her an email or something saying i'm confused and looking for an answer from her? or something else? I really like this girl and she was the only person that made me smile and get my mind off of something that happened to me the previous weekend (not gonna go into details)... but ya i'm confused and just want to know what to do, any help would be great. Thanks.