Girl I met two years ago.

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  1. DrKillByDeath

    DrKillByDeath New Member

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    I took a lit class two years ago where I met a girl that I found was a lot like me. We hung out a bit and really got to liking her but I never asked her out. I guess I wasn't ready for anything and I figured I'd always meet somebody else down the line.

    Now I find myself thinking about her a lot again, figured I should get a hold of her. We have a mutual friend who was an old instructor who says she's still single. I just don't know how to contact her - getting her number would be obvious but it also seems wierd and creepy.

    "Hi, remember me from that Lit class 2 years ago? Yeah I tracked down your number". - Doesn't bode too well in my opinion.

    Thoughts?
     
  2. Ricer

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    try facebook my friend
     
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    i think if you call her you might come across as creepy.

    cant your mutual friend set up an accidental meeting?
     
  4. Get her number and call her. Nothing to lose.

    The only thing you need to do is introduce yourself, mention you talked to you got her number from a mutual friend and you are good to go.

    One girl in your lif FTMFL.
     
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    tell us how it goes
     
  6. danewreed

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    Let it be in the past IMO.
     
  7. Chip Chipperson

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    i agree with the attitude, but the action will prolly come off creepy and fruitless
     
  8. Throw in another method for him to deal with it, or give him some form of advice, we both know you give great advice now do it. :rofl:
     
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    If the mutual friend is ever at a party, etc... have him get her and you to come. Calling would seem creepy/desperate as fuck to a girl you haven't seen in two years and weren't serious with to begin with.
     
  10. Chip Chipperson

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    :) the other advice in this thread is pretty good. The whole damn post reeks of one-itis. With this kind of concern for the girl he hasn't seen in TWO YEARS, he's begging for failure
     
  11. We both know that, but we need to help the guy fail (not in a bad way OP)so he can move on.
     
  12. BlazinBlazer Guy

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    Oneitis FTL...
     
  13. danewreed

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    I've thought about girls from the past, I feel that's totally a normal emotion for me. But would I pursue them again is a different story.
     
  14. DrKillByDeath

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    Thanks for the advice.

    Keep in mind that the mutual friend is an old instructor, not much partying or going out with happens when it comes to old teachers, it's just a touch-base sort of relationship.

    I think that calling her might just be the best option. The both of us ended up going to film school (albiet different schools) afterwards, I guess that's a great opener right there.
     
  15. Yail Bloor

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    if she was interested then, she will remember who you are

    so no need to explain who you are

    if you get in touch with her, avoid the "hanging out" you did before and invite her on an actual date
     
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