SRS Girl help plz!

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  1. jpt20689

    jpt20689 Guest

    Hey I met this girl online and after a few months we started 'going out'... but we broke up the next day because her mom didn't approve of our relationship... but ever since we have been really good friends... I want to go and meet her in person but 1). Mom issues 2.) Mom issues again (she got laid off). and I still realy love jer... but I dont know what to do...

    Any ideas? (please do not relate this to sex or porn. I believe in abstinance before marriage)

    TIA
     
  2. johan

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    Why doesn't her mom like you?
     
  3. jpt20689

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    lol she likes me she just thinks we are too young to date (we are 15 turning 16 this year)
     
  4. johan

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    That's what I assumed at first, but your profile said 1985.
     
  5. jpt20689

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    haha I wasnt sure if it was going to block me from signing up because I was too young... *goes and changes it*
     
  6. Dethfat

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    um, prove yourself to her mom, talk to her mom, dont just be some guy her daughter talks too, it will help a whole bit, ask her permition and tell her about yourself, ik its hard to do and kind of imbaressing but, it'll be worth it GL BUDDY
     
  7. Budha

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    Wait, you havent even met her yet? You were never going out man. Dont turn into Kip from Napolean Dynamite...
     
  8. katt_85

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    It's a tad hard to date someone when you haven't even met them. :ugh: I dont really think it counts as you ever going out.

    Do you honestly blame her mother for not wanting her daughter to meet/date "some boy she met online?":mamoru:

    If you are serious about this, really really really serious, then yes, go talk to her mom. Meet her, make a damned good impression and hope to get on her good side.

    I AM wondering if this girl is using mom as an excuse to avoid meeting you, however. If shes not into the idea, dont push it on her.
     
  9. bobbarker70

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    first of all, how old are you? where do u go in public evryday? work? school? meet people there. dont go online. u dont know what your getting yourself into

    my mom dates guys off the internet and every guy is wierd. then again my sister is a college graduate and met a guy online whos an engineer and an amazing guy, so idk. good luck tho.
     
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    Yeah, the whole internet thing is a double edged sword. Some nice people, alot of really screwed up people with emotional baggage looking for someone to drag down with them as they drown in their own shortcommings. :rant:
     

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