SRS Girl Help Again

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  1. Kerberos

    Kerberos New Member

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    There is this girl that I have been chatting with on the internet for a bit, mostly about politics, litterature and stuff. She's a passionate nerd just like me and she apparently lives very close to me. So, I finally got her to send me her picture the other day and she's alright. The question is: how do you ask out a girl on the internet without scaring her? I've been trying to figure that one out. First of all, should I ask for her phone number and talk to her on the phone first? Or should I try to arrange a meeting on her campus etc. How should I bring it up? BTW, sorry guys for bringing up all those stupid girl questions but you guys are pretty much the only people I can ask.
     
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  2. GlassUser

    GlassUser send an email not a pm OT Supporter

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    Say you feel like getting outside for fresh air, ask if she wants to meet for coffee at some local place. Don't mention it to her, but make sure it's a public place and fairly mainstream.
     
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    :werd: you need to be just as careful here, because you dont know if she's who she says she is

    but yeah, just suggest a meet
     
  4. Fred91GTA

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    Man, if you're not careful, you're gonna get :gaysex:

    There be lots of sick people on the internet out there, which is why I never go that route.
     
  5. beautiful disaster

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    i wouldn't...honestly. i know a girl who got raped doin that stuff.
     
  6. Toasty

    Toasty Naked people have little or no influence on societ

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    just take it slow and use common sense in your judgement. A friend of mine met his girl online and now, a year later, they're together and on the verge of getting married.

    I once had someone contact me online. Claimed she was from Russia. It was a true OT worthy moment because I could tell right away things were not right as soon as I saw the pictures looked professionally taken and he/she said "I love you" within about 5 emails. So I played along and got some good pictures of some hotty model from who knows where. I think he/she eventually caught on I knew because things abruptly stopped. :naughty:

    No need to meet just yet. Talk a while longer...move it up past just text and photos. Video...telephone. No rush...if she's got potential to be someone you'd like a relationship with it will progress naturally to the point you both will be eager to meet.
     

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