but she wants to watch me and the other guy have sex! she says thats her thing that really turns her on and its unfair for me to say that she cannot experience that with me for her whole life! i am not or have ever been gay or even bi sexual in my life so i dont know that i can do this but she is getting more persistant. she says it is her utmost fantasy to watch a man dominate me sexually.i really love my girl and dont want to lose her over this what should i do guys and girls? serious replies pleaase.