Girl doesn't want to talk, just text....

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  1. Chadder007

    Chadder007 OG Diamond Member

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    Emailed girl for her phone number and she emails me back that she doesn't like to talk, just texts a lot. :ugh:
    Whats up with girls wanting to text so much here lately. I'd rather hear the other persons voice to gauge emotion....plus to make sure its a girl on the other end that I'm chatting with.
     
  2. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    wah wah I want to be dragged into an hour long phone call


    Seriously dude, this is a good thing.
     
  3. Kev07

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    if you want to hear her voice so badly then call her.
     
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    in general? sounds like a weirdo to me.
     
  5. RichieHemingway

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    Marriage material.
     
  6. VA197

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    This is code for 'She has a BF'. She doesn't want to get personal with you, but you haven't been written off completely yet.

    Some women call this type of thing 'back-burnering', meaning she's keeping you on reserve in case her present relationship goes south.

    You need to decide if this is what you want to be.
     
  7. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Sadly, I find that a lot of people (not just girls) who like to text as opposed to talking tend not to answer their phones when a call comes in, and will return messages in text form to avoid talking altogether.

    It's like we've got an entire generation of people with eternally chronic laryngitis when handling their cell phones. :greddy:

    As I've said many times before, I truly hate text messaging. It really isn't that hard to keep a phone conversation short and to the point IMHO. Make a 2-5 minute call to set up a date, and save the long conversations for face-to-face time or email.
     
  8. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    not really. It's pretty much the entire generation
     
  9. VA197

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    Texting constantly is the norm, yes...but if a girl wants to make a match with a guy, she will text and phone, and won't tell you up front not to call, texting only. That was what struck me in the TS's post, that she told him up front basically not to call her, but he could text. If she was interested, she would want him to contact her any way possible. Women do play these games, especially in the early twenties. Just trying to give him a heads up on a possible scenario.
     
  10. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    again, not really. I've dated girls for months and never really had a phone call with them.

    Then I had one that got me on the phone for hours :ugh:, hated that shit.
     
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    If shes saying she just texts, and didnt give her phone number, give up. If she gave her phone number then fucking text her already. Its not that hard.
     
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    Also why should you be worried its a chick? go to a fucking bar already and get out of the chat rooms. Seriously
     
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    anyone else find its weird that she's from the internet instead of a face to face normal meet'n'greet
     
  14. MattThom01

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    not seeing an issue here. She doesn't want to talk on the phone, you do.

    Besides the fact that texting isn't a great form of communication, this could be a source of conflict in the future.

    Also, if a girl tells me she just wants to text...I'll admit it, I think I must not be too high on her list of interests.

    I don't think there's much point in continuing to pursue her.
     
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    I wish this could happen w/ all chicks :bowdown:

    Just text me.
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    This relationship would end well.

    You-"honey, we really need to talk about what you did last night"
    Her-"fine, by I'm just going to text"

    We've condoned a new generation of emotional retards who hide behind a phone/computer and convince themselves it brings everyone "closer."

    I bet you anything you go in a date with his girl and her phone doesn't leave her hand all night
     
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    No its not. Its the most annoying thing on earth to me and a HUGE turn off. I refuse to date another girl who cant keep her face out of her phone all the time. I dont want to hear my phone vibrating every 30sec all day long and I dont want you texting other people when you're supposed to be hanging out with ME. Its hard to realize how rude it really is until she stops foreplay to check her text because it might be important. :hsugh:

    So in short, I would hit the brakes here. Text whores are just attention whores. They have to constantly be engaging with 2-3 people or else they feel like they're not contributing their greatness to the world.

    I dont have a preference of text to phone, just most people dont sit on the phone all day by choice unless its for business.
     
  18. peoplescar

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    thank you for pointing this out. i fucking hate when people tell me facebook brings them closer to people. if these people really truly were your friends you would contact them because you cared and actually wanted to say hello. I can not stand the way people view friends these days.

    omgs we're facebook friends but i probably won't talk to you ever again in real life nor do i actually care how things are going when i ask, i just want to extend myself to you to show you that i exist.

    grr
     
  19. GammaRadiation

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    Meh, facebook lets me stay in contact with people who live far away and maintain a large social group at my University. You know...the stuff it was intended for in the first place. Not the mindless dribble (though much better than what myspace turned into) that often goes on today. IMO if you cant provide a .edu e-mail address you shouldn't be allowed on facebook. :dunno:
     
  20. peoplescar

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    its the stupid tests and quizzes and the fact that my mother is on there. i just don't get it. causes un necessary and otherwise avoidable drama too.
     
  21. john law

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    Man, you guys will whine about anything.
     
  22. THoC

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    be glad she doesnt like talking on the phone. i hate that shit.

    although i do find it weird that she straight up told you not to call her.
     
  23. giz

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    my ex barely texts or chats online. it's kind of a pain, because you have to call for everything. in general I prefer to call, but I've gotten into the habit of texting a lot. I think you should be able to text sometimes.
     
  24. peoplescar

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    i'd rather just meet up and talk. :dunno:

    i hate talking on the phone as well.
     
  25. Mr. November

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    I hate talking on the phone most of the time.
     

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