Ok...so I've posted on this before in OT, either in the Vag or in the Asylum. And even though people have said "dont sleep where you shit" or "date mix business with pleasure" or "don't date girls from your job, it doesn't work out" or the various other things that people have expressed negatively over dating co-workers, I STILL have the same feelings over this girl. Some background .... we both work in a school. She works with Preschool kids and I work with Pre-Kindergarten kids and our rooms are virtually connected. I mean I could be in my room and I could look up and see her, literally, across the way in her room. So even though we are in different rooms, we still work very closely. We've both been working together at the same job for a while now. She's been their at least 5yrs and I've been their 8yrs. She is younger than me, more outgoing than me, bit crazier than me and I always tell myself to forget about her cause she is too crazy and go after some other girl but I always come back to her and I'm always going nuts about her. This week I have been flipping out for her. I don't show it but damn, I am definately infautated with this girl and definately in lust with this girl and I just want to do things with her and to her so bad! I think we are also opposites, she likes to drink a lot and I'll drink but not every weekend and not to just get drunk. She also smokes but I don't. I don't have a problem with it as most of my friends smoke anyway. Most of my ex's have smoked also. She likes to party at the bars or with her friends or she likes to go out and do different things like or go to concerts, etc and I love to do different things also but sometimes I am more of a stay at home guy. Probably a little boring sometimes. When I go out it tends to happen in bursts like me and the guys will go out every weekend for like 3 weeks and then we'll chill and not see each other for like a month or two. But anyway We have gone out on dates, in groups and by yourselves, but nothing has ever happened between us. I also can't get the angle on her. And I don't know how to approach it either. I have gone up to her when we have been outside on the playground together and asked her what she was up to on the weekend and she is usually busy. She's always hangin out with her friends, doing something. She even asked me out once also. And we went. We had fun. We both drank. I think she was tipsy. But again nothing sexual happened. And even though people have said negative stuff about this situation, I have some STRONG feelings towards this girl...And I say STRONG feelings of lust. She just makes me nuts. And I don't know if she knows I like her or what. I don't really send out signals to her. I joke with her about different things and I make fun of her. Such as today, her sweater was around her waist and it was fallin down and she said "its always falling down" and I said "its because its gettin bigger" lol it was funny and i've done different things like that for a while when I get the chance. I dunnooo....I just find myself staring at her quite often and i'm drooling like a dog in heat. lol My other friend at work invited me to go to the movies on friday nite and I want to ask this girl I'm flippin for if she wants to go. Afterwards, we'll prolly go get drinks and hang out. So thats what I'm goin to try tomorrow....Hopefully, she won't be busy friday night. Do you guys think I should tell this girl how much I like her?? I've never given signs and sometimes I won't even talk to her cause I get in a mood about something. Or sometimes she is a mood about something so we don't even talk. I'm thinking I should just be friendly and just get after it more but then again i don't want to seem desperate....and also findin the right time to talk is a problem because of the kids and everything. I dunno....i'm so lost on this one but i so want to get with this girl.