well, i'm extremely picky when it comes to relationships. i get mediocre girls almost effortlessly off sheer nonchalance and superficial charm, but only because i don't particularly care at all for them. when it comes to nice girls with substance and real character, that's when things go awry. it's really hard for me to close the deal with girls i genuinely like because i'm always overanalyzing things and worrying about how i'm doing, etc. 3 weeks ago i was chilling before work in the downtown annex. just sitting on a bench, eating some flaxseeds. a cute asian girl with a big backpack sits down on the bench next to me and starts eating pumpkin seeds. she says hi to me, which is surprising because i'm usually the one breaking the ice with new people. we get to talking and she tells me how she just got done traveling all over canada via hitchhiking and living/working on farms. i find that sort of stuff admirable and we end up having an in depth conversation about it all. i take the lead and invite her to go for some tea before i head to work, and we sit there talking for 2 hours. we have a great time and it's plain to see that she's interested in me. conversation is natural, lighthearted, jovial. our personalities match perfectly. i got her contact info, and 2 days later asked her to meet me for coffee. so on our second sort of "date" we decided to take the streetcar all the way to the end of queen st. and visit the water filtration plant. it's a big prisonlike building that sits atop a big green hill. this girl is cool and adventurous, so i suggest we climb down the hill off to the side of the beach and hike it to the scarborough bluffs. we climbed for about 4 hours all the way there and had a blast. some romantic shit. ever since then, we've both invited each other out to do stuff and we're always calling/facebook chatting each other. none of this is out of the ordinary right? she likes me. the only thing that i can't shake is the fact that she has a boyfriend who lives in BC that she's mentioned a few times. it's seriously crippling my whole shit, i haven't even kissed her yet. i like her enough that i wouldn't mind just being friends with her, and i don't want to ruin it by overstepping my boundaries, especially on another guy's girl. so OT, what do i do?