GF went down on me tonight... but I didn't get fully hard...

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  1. citizen erased

    citizen erased jailbait tested, milf approved

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    My GF and I were making out, she started to rub my dick and then eventually starting to suck it -- and I wasn't fully hard, normally I should be right? I tried to jerk it in order to help her but I wasn't able to retain full hardness... is this normal?

    I am a virgin if that matters, and this is the first time I've had a BJ.
     
  2. afterShock81

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    you very well could've been just a little nervous and were thinkin too much about it. It happens to the best of us...the more your thinkin about it....the harder (no pun intended) it is to just relax and let it all go.
     
  3. KRYST!

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    If your not fully hard, flip her over and slap your cock on her thigh/ass for about 20 seconds. Works for me
     
  4. citizen erased

    citizen erased jailbait tested, milf approved

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    we were making out / oral sexin' in my car, not enough room and i had my pants pulled down... :hs:
     
  5. 127.0.0.1

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    wait for a bed/couch/etc to try this. esp since you are apparantly inexperienced (no offense)

    But just make sure you both are comfortable with the situation before trying to do it in a confined space like a car.

    btw, do you go down on her? j/w
     
  6. citizen erased

    citizen erased jailbait tested, milf approved

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    i ended up fingering her, she didn't let me go down on her -- we're getting together again on thursday -- i think she is saving it until then. :hs:
     
  7. 127.0.0.1

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    dont try to rush going down on her (i mean while you are doing it).

    just try to feel out her body motions, and go slow to start. as long as you return the favors, or take the initiative to go down on her, then you should be fine
     
  8. ledzep73

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    Drinking can make it hard to get up. I almost said rinking can make it harder, but that would be wrong :p But hey, it happens to everyone. There have been times when i couldn't get it up, but belive it or not its not a big deal. If it was I wouldn't have said it happend to me ^_^
     
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    I agree with slow motions with her body. Don't try and make her come straight away just enjoy it with her.
     
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    :) That is exactly what I was going to say.. Slap it on da butt!
     
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    Drinking totally screws me up.....I just cant get it right after Im plowed. The best sex for me is when Im sober and horny......:naughty:
     
  12. Werdna

    Werdna Livin' the SLO Life...

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    yeah nervousness owns us all

    the first time i ever fool around with a new partner, i always take a lot longer to get off
     
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    When I first met my girl, I was toasted and she basically threw herself at me.......I had major trouble, I could not even perform.......nervousness and alcohol:ugh:

    Its all good now, I married her and we gets busy and freaky:naughty:
     
  14. Werdna

    Werdna Livin' the SLO Life...

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    Yeah, alcohol is the other killer. If you know you might be getting some action that night, don't whack it that day. It could help a bit.
     
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    been there, done that, not a huge deal. it happens. if theis happpens all the time, like every time you get hard you can't keep an erection... i'd go to the doctor. you may have basically a blood leak in your penis.

    most likely you were just nervous, dont worry about it again. next time, just fantasize about the huge load your gonna blow in her mouth.
     
  16. Godspeed

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    Happened to me too. I get raging hard just touching and foolin around with a girl but once my pants came off, nervousness kicked in and i lost the chub. I'm still a virgin :hs: cuz of it but whatever. just gotta relax.
     
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    truff.

    my case she was super experienced and i was super not experienced.
     
  18. GR3N4DE

    GR3N4DE OG noob.

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    nerves own you.
     
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    yup never fails :bigthumb:
     
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    haha love the name
     
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    :greddy:
     
  22. Killa B

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    I think some guys just don't get much off BJ's, I'm one of them, sometimes it feels like I'm gonna bust but I never do :wtc:
     
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    My fiance has sucked on me 4 times before and I have never been able to orgasm. I'm not sure what it is. I think I just have to be in control of the speed to be able to orgasm. I used to not be able to orgasm when she rode me, but I have now. The first few times it didn't though.
     
  24. lauren

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    in addition to booze and nerves, meds can keep it down. partiularly, adderoll/ritalin, coke/meth, antidepressents. also, if you both arent very inexpeirenced, it may just take some time for her to figure out how to do it. practice makes perfect.
     
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    I hope you don't take all of those at once.
     

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