gf thinks im cheating (im not) help!

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  1. TonaliRise

    TonaliRise New Member

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    my gf and i were at a friends bday saturday she was looking hot! the hottest there as a matter of fact.

    i go to show her a funny video on my phone and im like whats this she looks at it, its too dark to see but she can hear myself and another girl talking.

    thats it she is pissed starts deleting all the pics of me in her camera and is pissed.

    this video was shoot in jan. so i didint remember off hand what it is, then i recall a female coworker caught up with me and two friends and i am trying to rec. the two of them trying to hit on two girls and get shut down but they didint.

    damage is done tho she is pretty much making it seem like its over.

    help what should i do???????
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    How old is she?

    She sounds like every young, immature, insecure girl out there. She doesn't know how to deal with things like an adult and she also doesn't trust you. The problem is only you can solve this or figure out what to do. You have to talk to her about this and ask why she doesnt trust you. If she won't tlak to you or says it's over then don't fight for it.

    Why would you want to fight for a dumbass who doesn't trust you and overreacts that way?
     
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    TonaliRise New Member

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    she is 24 we been together for over 3 years, and very mature except of this type of stuff.
    very emotional
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Wow, you've got to be kidding me...

    Well something is obviously wrong. You've both got some issues or she's got some real issues because no one just bursts into a crazy fit over a girls voice in a video out of nowhere....
     
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    TonaliRise New Member

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    ok a lil more backstory at one time i used a fake sn to talk to her as a diffrent person to see how she would react i eventually felt this was stupid and stopped.

    she knew and lol about a week ago she brought it to the surface and jus got over that ordeal a week ago
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Why are you trying to test her trust?
     
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    come back and post when both of you grow up.
     
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    TonaliRise New Member

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    well first of all i didint have aim in middle school

    lol

    yea it is childish thats why i stopped but love makes u do stupid shit
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rolleyes: Whatever. It's apparent there is a shitload of issues you're not bringing up, therefore no one is going to pity or help you.
     
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    fixed that typo for you
     
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    TonaliRise New Member

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    yea it is
    but like i said i stopped and that was months ago
     
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    TonaliRise New Member

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    and what i stated is it no more back story to this shit
     
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    like what
     
  14. Exiled

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    I think there is some fibbing about age here
     
  15. Viper

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    I hate to be a downer here (yeah, is anyone surprised?), but an overreaction like that?

    In the past when an overreaction like that has occured, it meant that whoever was overreacting was cheating on their SO.

    She's probably cheating on you.

    But, you know, you kind of deserve it for being an overbearing, control freak who doesn't trust her.
     
  16. Nuk3

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    dude are you like 13?

    you shouldn't give her any reason to think you're cheating, if you're not then shes the one with the problem, not you.
     
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    only reason i can think that this story makes a lick of sense is if she was just looking for any reason at all to end it... :dunno:
     
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  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You do realize this is the perfect example on an OP who gives you about 5% of the real details and in the end he could easily be ther one at fault, or not explaining the situation in a fair manner. Right?
     
  21. Viper

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    What can I say? I work with what I've got...not what I don't have.
     
  22. Falconer

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    I didn't read the rest of the replies.

    Typically when someone starts making accusations that their SO is cheating, it's because they are cheating and are becoming paranoid about it.
     
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    Thank you. :bowdown:
     
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    :werd:
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    This is exactly what I've been talking about....and exactly the reason I havent been putting my .2 in in this thread....
     
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    there is no gap between her seeing the video and her getting mad. we were at a party and she started deleting my pics on her camera. i try to talk to her and she wont have it she goes sits somewhere else.

    im left sitting there like wtf
     

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