Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by nemopie, Jan 17, 2005.
Is their anyway to make her think Diffrent or break her of this.
What part about it grosses her out? Is it the whole process or the thought of you getting off in her mouth?
Also, does she enjoy it if you go down on her?
They still make girls like this??
How old is she and how much experience does she have? Age and maturity plays a huge factor in why she wont do this.
i dont think you can change that.
i dont mind giving head but then my bf doesnt care either way. as long as he can go down on me, he is happy...
very true... i didn't give my first blowjob until i turned 18, and i was pretty turned off to the experience.
try to figure out what she doesn't like about the experience. if it involves swallowing, that's something you could compromise. otherwise, if it's the actual act, i don't know how else to change her mind. it all comes down to pleasing your partner, and if she's not up to pleasing you, well, then, that's a whole different ballgame. i hope you don't go down on her when she doesn't reciprocate.
I thought it was gross up til 9th grade. Now i'm a bit of a fiend
Yep...I would suck on my man a few times a day if he would let me.....I love giving head!
Try coating your penis in honey.
(yellowboys gf) werd. I would love to do that too if i could...though I still do give it to my man every chance I get. YUMMMMMMMY
Tell her you won't go down on her unless she does you? It's only fair.
I will take every chance I get to eat her, but if she doesnt pay back at all then sorry gots to go.....
Most likely nothing will change her mind other than time and maturity.
Well, that certainly is a nice attitude. My kinda guy! Seriously, I wish you better luck in the future, that's a pity.
lie. blatent lie. what does a guy get out fo it when eh goes down on a girl? if u dont give the favor back im sure hed care
wash your dick
wht he gets out of it? it gets him going really quick... lol
i talked to him, he told me he doesnt care. he likes it when i do it but its not something he REALLY REALLY NEEDS to survive or whatever... *shrug*
my ex barely like giving bj's. in 3 months, she gave me like 2 bj's, and i went down on her a lot. my current g/f likes giving it, and it's perfect cuz i like going down too.
i dont like giving bj's, i dont think its grose or weird or anything, i just dont like doing it. however, i definately will b/c i love to please my man. i htink its just one of those things that if you dont like doing you just have to suck it up (no pun intended) and do it
If she's a fattie, put some food on your dick.
The idea seems kind of gross to me though...I would do it though
Dump her. Your not in a relationship to change someone into something you want. You can't say its not that big of a deal, otherwise you would not be posting about it.
How you doin?
We need more like you.
I think the hottest thing about giving a blowjob is that it turns me on to turn on my partner. However, it took experience for me to be able to learn myself to where I knew what I liked, what turned me on and eventually what turned him on. This is another possible aspect of why this girl does not like to give oral. Perhaps she hasnt learned enough about her body yet to be able to focus on how hot oral can really be.
Another reason why I think this is due to inexperience. Give her some time to feel more comfortable. Show her by masturbating in front of her (if she's okay with that) what techniques you like - how you like to be rubbed, what parts feel better than others - and - perhaps you may catch her interest and intrigue and she may want to see and do more.