GF Thinks BJ's are gross.

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by nemopie, Jan 17, 2005.

  1. nemopie

    nemopie OT Supporter

    Joined:
    May 4, 2004
    Messages:
    517
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Down River, Michigan/ Tempe, AZ
    Is their anyway to make her think Diffrent or break her of this.
     
  2. dnallivah

    dnallivah Guest

    What part about it grosses her out? Is it the whole process or the thought of you getting off in her mouth?

    Also, does she enjoy it if you go down on her?
     
  3. calilynne

    calilynne New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 31, 2004
    Messages:
    65
    Likes Received:
    0
    They still make girls like this??

    Just kidding..

    How old is she and how much experience does she have? Age and maturity plays a huge factor in why she wont do this.
     
  4. orie

    orie social assassin

    Joined:
    Jun 20, 2001
    Messages:
    90,718
    Likes Received:
    57
    Location:
    Prestigious Loudoun County
    dump her
     
  5. RockChick

    RockChick New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 13, 2004
    Messages:
    954
    Likes Received:
    0
    i dont think you can change that.

    i dont mind giving head but then my bf doesnt care either way. as long as he can go down on me, he is happy... :big grin:
     
  6. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

    Joined:
    Apr 11, 2001
    Messages:
    13,610
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    lovely orlando
    very true... i didn't give my first blowjob until i turned 18, and i was pretty turned off to the experience.

    try to figure out what she doesn't like about the experience. if it involves swallowing, that's something you could compromise. otherwise, if it's the actual act, i don't know how else to change her mind. :sad2: it all comes down to pleasing your partner, and if she's not up to pleasing you, well, then, that's a whole different ballgame. i hope you don't go down on her when she doesn't reciprocate. :nono:
     
  7. Laurel

    Laurel New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 5, 2005
    Messages:
    7,307
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Bothell, WA
    I thought it was gross up til 9th grade. Now i'm a bit of a fiend
     
  8. TampaGirl813

    TampaGirl813 Guest

    Yep...I would suck on my man a few times a day if he would let me.....I love giving head!:p
     
  9. Bam Thwok

    Bam Thwok New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 10, 2005
    Messages:
    65
    Likes Received:
    0
    Try coating your penis in honey.
     
  10. Akord2NR

    Akord2NR OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2002
    Messages:
    2,774
    Likes Received:
    4
    Location:
    The Lowcountry
    (yellowboys gf) werd. :) I would love to do that too if i could...though I still do give it to my man every chance I get. :bj: YUMMMMMMMY :wiggle:
     
  11. D

    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

    Joined:
    Dec 27, 2004
    Messages:
    4,067
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    •••
    Tell her you won't go down on her unless she does you? It's only fair.
     
  12. thepornokid

    thepornokid New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 5, 2004
    Messages:
    6,690
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    WA
    :bowdown:
     
  13. Fittsjr

    Fittsjr New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 12, 2004
    Messages:
    3,380
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    in the ATC tower
    I will take every chance I get to eat her, but if she doesnt pay back at all then sorry gots to go.....

    Most likely nothing will change her mind other than time and maturity.
     
  14. D

    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

    Joined:
    Dec 27, 2004
    Messages:
    4,067
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    •••
    :yum:

    Well, that certainly is a nice attitude. My kinda guy! ;) Seriously, I wish you better luck in the future, that's a pity. :wtc:
     
  15. bobbarker70

    bobbarker70 New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 3, 2005
    Messages:
    2,947
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    upstate ny
    lie. blatent lie. what does a guy get out fo it when eh goes down on a girl? if u dont give the favor back im sure hed care
     
  16. Neuman

    Neuman New Member

    Joined:
    May 10, 2004
    Messages:
    3,541
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Honolulu, HI
    wash your dick
     
  17. RockChick

    RockChick New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 13, 2004
    Messages:
    954
    Likes Received:
    0

    wht he gets out of it? it gets him going really quick... lol

    i talked to him, he told me he doesnt care. he likes it when i do it but its not something he REALLY REALLY NEEDS to survive or whatever... *shrug*
     
  18. Cautild

    Cautild New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 19, 2004
    Messages:
    69
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Miami
    my ex barely like giving bj's. in 3 months, she gave me like 2 bj's, and i went down on her a lot. my current g/f likes giving it, and it's perfect cuz i like going down too.
     
  19. cuz

    cuz Guest

    i dont like giving bj's, i dont think its grose or weird or anything, i just dont like doing it. however, i definately will b/c i love to please my man. i htink its just one of those things that if you dont like doing you just have to suck it up (no pun intended) and do it
     
  20. eisenflower

    eisenflower ..□ □ □ □ I

    Joined:
    Nov 8, 2004
    Messages:
    12,238
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Canadia
    If she's a fattie, put some food on your dick.
     
  21. Isolt78

    Isolt78 Guest

    The idea seems kind of gross to me though...I would do it though
     
  22. Vendar

    Vendar Guest

    Dump her. Your not in a relationship to change someone into something you want. You can't say its not that big of a deal, otherwise you would not be posting about it.
     
  23. KMD

    KMD Guest

    How you doin?:bigthumb:

    We need more like you.
     
  24. calilynne

    calilynne New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 31, 2004
    Messages:
    65
    Likes Received:
    0
    I think the hottest thing about giving a blowjob is that it turns me on to turn on my partner. However, it took experience for me to be able to learn myself to where I knew what I liked, what turned me on and eventually what turned him on. This is another possible aspect of why this girl does not like to give oral. Perhaps she hasnt learned enough about her body yet to be able to focus on how hot oral can really be.

    Another reason why I think this is due to inexperience. Give her some time to feel more comfortable. Show her by masturbating in front of her (if she's okay with that) what techniques you like - how you like to be rubbed, what parts feel better than others - and - perhaps you may catch her interest and intrigue and she may want to see and do more.
     
  25. eisenflower

    eisenflower ..□ □ □ □ I

    Joined:
    Nov 8, 2004
    Messages:
    12,238
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Canadia
    BINGO!
     

Share This Page