gf stop taking pill

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  1. MudRacer4x4

    MudRacer4x4 New Member

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    she had her period about three weeks ago but she just told me today she hasnt been taking her birth control. She was on it for a long time up until a month ago.


    We have had sex 5 times since her period about three weeks ago. 2 or them were without a condom and i pulled out the other 3 were with condoms but i went inside the condom while in her once. Do you guys think i'm okay as far as pregnacy? Were going to get her the bc shot monday but is there anything else we can do?
     
  2. AnD Im SpEnT

    AnD Im SpEnT New Member

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    well if she was on it for a long time im pretty sure you're fine. its still safe to check though
     
  3. lauren

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    do you guys not talk daily or something? why didnt that come up in normal conversation?
     
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    good point
     
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    would've been different (but still kinda odd information to leave out) if she had insisted on condom. but letting you go without is just stupid and sounds like she's hoping for an "accident".
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Congrats on being a father.
     
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    are you serious? thats what condoms are for.
     
  8. MudRacer4x4

    MudRacer4x4 New Member

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    ok guys i fucking know she should have said something. i will deal with that later i want to know if i'm in the clear and how to tell
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I'm going to bypass the "why are you still with that girl anyway?" talk and skip straight to the don't be an idiot and wait around for signs :ugh: Have her do something productive and get a pregmancy test. What're you gonna do? Wait until she feels kicks in her stomach to decide a course of action? :uh:
     
  10. MattThom01

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    so she went off her pill without telling you, the neglected to insist on using a condom every time since then.

    I think she wants a baby...

    Have a good talk with her ASAP
     
  11. MudRacer4x4

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    ok but will the test tell us? I mean it was about a week ago the last time we did it without a condom
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    First Response pregnancy tests can tell you that soon, yes. I'd suggest you guys go grab one pretty soon. At least it will give you peace of mind. Then you can get her that BC shot as well.
     
  13. Alaya

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    That would be 10000000000% grounds for me to break up with someone if I were in your shoes.
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :werd: That on top of all the other shit she's done/said.
    /relationship
     
  15. misterjoanna

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    I have to join the chorus and say the real issue here is the not talking to you about it first. i get really defensive when people accuse women of being irresponsible for not taking the pill, as it's her own choice. but seriously, to stop taking it, not discuss it with your partner, and then not take every measure possible to keep from getting pregnant? grounds for immediate termination of relationship, my friend.

    also, first response tells you up to one week before your period should come, not one week after sex. but since there's still a chance, i'd drag her to planned parenthood to talk about what can be done at this point to prevent pregnancy.
     

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