She says its not necessarily the girth that hurts, only at first but she gets used to it, but its the length of my penis and how deep it goes that hurts the most. For example during missionary I can go maybe 75% of the way in and she is completely fine but any more and she is in uncomfortable pain. From behind is even worse, I can only go in maybe 1/3 of the way before she is in alot more pain. She also says there is still a slight pain in her abdomen for a few hours after we have sex. The abdomen pain doesn't happen every time but often enough. I'm a little more than 7 inches but I don't know my girth, I also have a downward curved penis like a banana. Is it my curve that is making things not as pleasurable as it can be? Has anyone experienced something similar? I was the first person she had sex with 5 month ago but the pain she is mentioning has only been in the past couple of months. I don't know if its either because she is more comfortable communicating with me or if we are just more used to sex now and are not being as gentle as before.