My gf is coming up to stay with me for 9 days at my college. !!!!!!!! This is awesome. I love her and the long distance is terrible, so this is a great break from missing her. There always seems to be chemistry between her and a suitemate of mine. The suitemate is pretty blah about her ... and when asked about his thoughts on her generally speaking, he made a complaint that was very in character for him. She finds him to be an asshole, someone who tends to hurt your feelings without thinking twice. The guy is very tall but kind of grossly skinny, with a weak body and an average face. In terms of looks, I have him very much beat. It's just that in conversation she gets very engaged with this guy. He is his usual self: snide and occasionally funny. She responds to his dialogue with a huge amount of energy, honestly with at least as much enthusiasm as she has with me when I play with words. I can't place the reason, but it bugs the fuck out of me. This guy has slept with a lot of women for someone our age; that doesn't help. I think he also comes off as someone who would enjoy dominating a woman in bed, which she's into. (To those men here who subscribe to the asshole = alpha belief, just to be clear, I am often seen as an asshole by peers, and have been called a vindictive asshole by my gf on one occasion for that reason. I am not actually an asshole in the relationship. Nor am I some waifish pussy who is too timid to tease his gf on occasion.) My gf cares about me immensely, to the point of being clingy, which I actually enjoy, and openly let her do. Honestly I'm not even clear as to what pisses me off about the situation. In large part, I suppose it's that, generally, she doesn't react to anyone as strongly as she does to him (other than me of course). I guess I should just sit tight and try to ignore my irrational reaction to all of this. As usual, any thoughts would be appreciated.