FRK GF can't orgasm.

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  1. dazed

    dazed New Member

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    I don't know what it is, she can't orgasm! She never has by herself either.

    A little background: We aren't having vaginal "intercourse", she wants to wait until marriage (I :love: her, so it's okay).

    But we've basically done everything else under the sun and she can't orgasm.

    Is there any medical problem or is it somehting I'm (not) doing?
     
  2. rcmaniac

    rcmaniac New Member

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    What are you doing to her? lol
     
  3. Jspec180

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    1. you are PROBABLY doing it wrong

    2. she is probably too sexually repressed to allow herself to orgasm
     
  4. Jspec180

    Jspec180 New Member

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    also not all girls can orgasm, BUT MOST CAN
     
  5. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    A girl orgasming has alot to do with well everything more so than a man. A man only needs friction. A woman need" propper temperature, specific stimulation, a mood, a feeling, it has to go clockwise with 5lbs of pressure then imediately counter clockwise with 3lbs of pressure then you gotta clakc her ankles together and spit, but her dog has to be in the room, etc... all sorts of wierd shit.
     
  6. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    :eek3: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: But sadly true.
     
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    Exactly and don't say HE is doing it wrong. If a woman doesn't feel comfortable she won't enjoy it as much. When Lovely and I were first together, it would take her a bit to get wet and really get into it, because she was always worried about everything. I told her RELAX and quit thinking....amazing it worked. She relaxed and enjoyed herself.

    As Vulgar mentioned, LOTS comes into play with a woman and each woman is different. Also remember, that unlike Guys, it isn't all about the orgasm for a girl. For guys there is an end goal and plan....sex isn't as good unless you cum. For girls, it can still be great without cumming. On a side note, this is still something I have difficulties grasping :mamoru:
     
  8. Yes have some!

    Yes have some! Active Member

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    she needs to relax.
     
  9. TigreTek

    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    all girls can have an orgasm, some just don't know how.
     
  10. JoJoBee

    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    Vulgar, that statement that you made.... I am still laughing! :bowdown:
     
  11. m3m750

    m3m750 Kickin' it old school

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    holy crap! You're dating my ex...

    I had a similar situation with a girl I dated ages ago. While she wasn't holding out for marriage, she wasn't ready to loose her virginity yet. In her case, it seemed with everything else we did, she couldn't let herself go because she was afraid she would enjoy it too much and that would lead to having sex.
     
  12. bigb14

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    just gotta relax a little... she's probably one of the tense ones if she wants to wait till marriage
     
  13. dazed

    dazed New Member

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    she's actually defiently not.

    she's always excited to get into bed, just doesn't want the actualy vaginal intercourse. anal is fine though :o
     
  14. Bubba Atlantis

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    lol.....interesting
     
  15. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    Very.
     
  16. mbshoem

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    Can she make herself cum?
     
  17. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    You might want to read the whole thread :mamoru: . In the first part of his post, he says no.
     
  18. BedBunny

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    is there clit play?
     
  19. dazed

    dazed New Member

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    yep.

    i just don't know what it is, she just can't :dunno:
     
  20. jsmonet

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    heh... perhaps she has a fetish that is currently unknown to her :)

    i feel sorry for your jaw if you're actually eating her out correctly.

    do you finger her while you go down? i can't help but picture this as an awkward situation.

    i'm surprised nobody has mentioned this, but do you have any idea if she's been badtouched in the nono spot? girls with histories of sexual...advances that weren't entirely welcome seem to have issues orgasming.

    i put it that way because some women are just drama queens and will blame some hobo jacking off on a street corner for her inability to be intimate :)
     
  21. Mr. Monopoly

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    Have you tried a toy of any sort? Somehow I think the combination of vibe on the clit plus eating out would end in a powerful orgasm. If she's still not budging, it's probably something mentally wrong rather than physically, because from what you're saying, it's all good. Have her mention it to her gyno if it doesn't work? Good luck!
     
  22. mrs0323

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    Huge YES on these remarks. I'm having a hard time lately due to some upcoming surgeries fears and it is always on my mind. Frustrating for him, but he understands it has nothing to do with what he's doing or not doing, just I've got too much on my mind right now. Maybe in April :sadwavey:
     
  23. Lobo2me

    Lobo2me Would you hit?

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    Mine read a christian book that said masturbation was a sin(it also said it was ago for your stepfather to spank you since he was an authority figure, crazy book) when she was 12, so when I got to her at 15 she still hadn't done anything.. And every time I got her horny she stopped me because she didn't want to lose control :wtc:
     
  24. audrey

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    How old is she?
     
  25. Two toys

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    my best friend had a lot of sex before she ever had her first orgasm from vaginal intercourse with a male. it wasn't until she was actually in love that she was able to orgasm from vaginal.
     

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