GF being too controlling?

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  1. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    So my gf doesn't want me picking up the phone calls from one of my close friends (female) when my GF and I are hanging out.

    Background:

    A few months after we start dating, my close friend slapped my GF (it was my close friends birthday and she got drunk and did it for no reason whatsoever). Ever since then my gf has hated her (which isn't surprising). Even before the altercation they weren't really that nice to one another anyways. I know my close friend was wrong for doing so, but it seems like my gf is never going to get over it.

    So now... I am in a situation where I do as she wants or do whatever I want. I could see why she wouldn't want me talking to her when she is around but I feel like that's not very fair.

    What are your thoughts??
     
  2. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    there's always a reason.
     
  3. ww_Crimson

    ww_Crimson New Member

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    Pick one girl cause you definitely can't have both. Would you want your girlfriend associating with some guy who punched you in the fucking face?
     
  4. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    yeah... i've thought about this...

    My friend called her up a few weeks after and apologize (for whatever that's worth) and they talked for an hour to try to work things out. I guess the talk was only temporary since my GF still gets upset at her.
     
  5. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    not just any drunk bitch, a drunk close friend bitch.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You are pretty much an idiot if you stay friends with that girl. She sounds like a shit person anyway.

    Like AK said, you're lucky she's not giving you an ultimatum. She's not being unreasonable or "too controlling," you are just being a dumbass. If you want to keep your girlfriend I think you need to keep contact with that girl to a minuimum. Maybe examine why you want to keep her around anyway..
     
  7. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    If she slapt your girlfriend, especially for no reason and you're refusing to follow your girlfriends wishes, you're being a douche, nothing more to it.
     
  8. demosnat

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    It was incredibly disrespectful of you to keep talking to that chick period.
     
  9. Dweezil

    Dweezil New Member

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    It's your phone and your friends calling. Answer the damn phone.
     
  10. DTR rex

    DTR rex New Member

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    Are you fucking serious?

    Your friend got drunk and slapped your g/f and now you think your g/f is being controlling because she asks that you don't pick up her calls when YOU'RE WITH YOUR G/F.

    I'd say the fact that she didn't make you stop being friends with her altogether is pretty laid-back of her.

    Have some respect for your g/f dude.
     
  11. copperkali

    copperkali Mrs. Nicklk

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    If my bf had a friend who slapped me, there is no way in hell he would be able to talk to her any more. There would be a major problem if he even WANTED to talk to her again.
     
  12. fray

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    huge . to what everyone above has said.
     
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  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Threads like these make my day because the TS realizes he/she is being the idiot after all.
     
  15. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    not really...

    I just don't like being told what I can and cannot do.
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well then dump her. Obviously your friendship with a girl who was a rude bitch to your SO is more important to you :dunno:

    She has a justifiable reason to dislike you taking calls by that girl when she's with you.
     
  17. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    can't have my cake and eat it too, eh?
    :noes:
     
  18. fray

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    No. This is like having your cake and then eating from the bucket of shit sitting beside the table.
     
  19. DvBoard

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    Just don't answer at that time. Call her back later. Obviously they don't get along, quit pushing it. It would be different if they were friends.
     
  20. Elphaba

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    Can we make that an extra fucking huge . with a side of thread backfire?
     
  21. BadKat

    BadKat GIVE ME WINE!!

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    :wavey: Hey Alaya!
     
  22. demosnat

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    Dude, you don't get it, she shouldn't have even had to ask. This is on par with you telling her she isn't allow to, say, fondle other guys, it should be a given.
     
  23. OoOlAlA

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    So really you want to be with this "close" friend of yours? I automatically thought that your friend is jealous and wants to be with you so when drunk she slapped your gf. If I were in her situation there would be no way in hell my boyfriend would get to talk to her period, not when i'm not around, not ever. Your girlfriend is handling this really well.
     
  24. coldstone

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    LOL I love when girls dramatize things. "major problem"? Like what? You would throw a bitchfit or break up with your guy? Big whoop.
     
  25. coldstone

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    Bro, don't let somebody else disrespect your woman.

    And don't pick up that call when you are with your woman. Simple.
     

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