She said she thought we both needed space and to be individuals because we were becoming like one person. I agreed (regretfully, at this point) and we ended it. She says she still loves me, and that she's really having a hard time getting through it. I still love her and to say I'm having a difficult time is an understatement. I really hope we get back together, but I don't know. I can't stop thinking about her and I don't know how to stop. I'm still completely in love with her and it hurts so badly right now. What should I do? More importantly, how should I do it? I'm making myself sick over this. What's worse, is it's obvious she still cares. Last night, we had a text convo: her- Are you feeling alright? me- Yeah her- Please don't make yourself sick. You should be doing something fun tonight. I didn't reply to that for awhile, I got it late. her-Fine, if you ever want to talk let me know. me- I'm sorry, I just got the text. I'm going to do something, I just came back and napped for awhile because I didn't sleep much last night. I hope you have a good evening and have fun tonight. Also, I was at her dorm (yeah, we're college students) because ALL of my friends live on the same hall. I walked in and she was sitting in the hall talking to some people, and she wouldn't even look at me. Then I got her attention and asked how her night went, found out she was kind of drunk, and asked how she got home. "I drove." So then I said "You know you can call me if you need a ride." and she was just like "No...." I went outside, and apparently (according to a mutual friend) she got like a 'hollow, empty' look in her eyes and asked where we were all going and pulled one of my friends aside and was like "Please don't let Nick smoke. Please don't let him do it." I think it's obvious she still cares, but how do I deal with it? Do I give her space and hope she comes back to me? Do I just move on and try to forget about her (so far that hasn't worked at all, although it hasn't been long since we broke up). And we dated almost 1.5 years. . .would have been 1.5 years a week from Tuesday.